Fast forward through almost all porn flicks, and you’ll see that a steamy threesome seems like the best way for classmates with raging hormones, drunken neighbors, or a horny boss and his blonde secretaries to pass the time.

Although a threesome fantasy may seem impossible, for some men it isn’t achievable only by download or rental. Some very lucky guys make this fantasy come alive with careful planning, effective seduction, and desperate "Please, it’s my birthday" begging.

If you plan on fulfilling your threesome fantasy, you need to understand some basic rules. These rules will save you from common mistakes that usually spoil all the fun. The following are some threesome rules on handling such a smoking-hot, and possibly wet and sticky, sexual situation.

Establish the rules

Establishing the rules can be quite difficult since the two women you’re going to have sex with also have their own rules and limits. The top priority when making the rules is to understand and respect each other’s comfort levels.

Remember that one woman may feel jealous, so don’t ever shut either woman out. But if one of the party is your girlfriend or wife, always give her more attention. The other woman will understand. You may as well get jealous if the two women shut you out. Remember, the object of this threesome play is to share sex.

Be as generous as you can

A lazy head won’t get you far in a threesome. Don’t just lie there; you have to work. Don’t ever expect the women to give you 101% of their attention if you can’t get your tongue, mouth, fingers, or penis work 101%.

An important rule is to do away with your feelings for a while and try your best to be as giving as you can. The give-and-take principle applies well in a threesome. Just be patient doing your job and you will be rewarded in the end.

Keep yourself busy

Both women can become busy giving pleasure to each other. Make yourself busy if if you have nothing else to do. Caress their thighs and breasts, fondle their vagina, or kiss their necks or backs. You can also give one a head if her position allows you to. Don’t feel bad if you decide instead to pleasure yourself for a moment. All attentions will be yours soon enough.

Be careful with penetration

Penetration can cause an issue in a threesome. The natural inclination is for you to pay much attention to the one you’re pumping. Don’t do this. Focusing on her entirely will make the other woman feel left out. Look at the other woman in the eye. Kiss and touch her.

Thrusting into one woman and caressing and kissing another may give you overwhelming pleasure. Watch out. You might reach the climax sooner than expected. Just pace yourself and take it slowly. If you climax first, do everything possible to bring the two women to a screaming orgasm.

Be safe

Condoms are a given. Use a separate condom for each woman. Vaginal fluid transmits sexually transmitted infections, so use one specific hand when you’re pleasuring Woman A and use the other on Woman B. You must not alternate