Category Archives: Gay & Lesbian

Gay Men Chasing Straight Men

There are some gay men who tend to lean more towards straight men compared to fellow gays and you cannot blame them.  After all, straight guys have this certain “swagger” about them, making them more attractive among gay men as much as the opposite sex.  However, gay men should always bear in mind that no matter how much we would ... Read More »

Gay Marriage Bans Causes Stress

Supporters of same-sex marriage view this union as a matter of equality and argue that the rights of those in same-sex relationships are infringed if such marriage is not legally recognized. On the other hand, opponents of same-sex marriage argue that it runs in contrast with the best interests of a child because it deprives him or her either a ... Read More »

First Date Mistakes for Lesbians

As with many first dates, you always want to make it as perfect as possible.  But if you are uninformed, your date may end up awkward.  Here are some of the first date mistakes lesbians should avoid. Giving out too much information Of course you want to tell her more about yourself, but learn to control the flow of information ... Read More »

Best US Cities for Lesbians

The years have seen an increase of lesbians being able to comfortably come out and declare their sexuality. But then living in an environment that will accept them for who they are may be a different challenge. But thankfully, there are now a number of cities in the US that seem to welcome them with open arms. There are now ... Read More »

Adolescents and Sexual Identity

Adolescence is that time of our lives when we are most confused about who we are and our preferences. This is also the time when peer pressure affects us most. Thus, when an adolescent boy or girl finds him/herself attracted to a person of a similar gender, he/she feels confused and frightened – like nothing makes sense anymore. He/she is ... Read More »

When Your Gay Lover Is Jealous

Falling in love is the easiest part of homosexual relationship or any relationship. What takes commitment and hard work is keeping the relationship going even when the passion is fading. Many love experts claim that passionate love only lasts 2 to 4 years. Mutual respect and compatibility then become increasingly important as the relationship progresses. This article gives some tips ... Read More »

Should You Move in with Your Partner?

Considering the legal sanctions against gay marriage, living and moving in together is a very important decision for homosexual couples. It can mean the maturation and development of their relationship. It can also symbolize the deepening commitment and the desire for more concrete definition as partners. Moving in together is sweet and romantic, but it’s a life-defining decision that mustn’t ... Read More »

How to Turn Down an Unwanted Gay Suitor

Say a gay admirer starts to court you. He’s cute, smart, well-off and all, but the thing is, he’s just not your type. So how do you deal with him? How do you turn down an unwanted gay suitor? Here are some ways to deal with him without appearing too rude. Make a boyfriend/girlfriend lie Making a casual reference to ... Read More »

Does a Long Distance Gay Relationship Work?

Matthew and Edward fell in love the moment they met online. They’re now in a long distance relationship and their love for each other is going stronger. Matthew has visited his boyfriend in California four times and Edward has seen Matthew in California five times. Many of their friends doubted that their relationship wouldn’t last a month. Well, Matthew and ... Read More »

Can Gay Relationship with Big Age Gap Work?

Jimmy and Randy are very much in love and have been together for more than a year. They’re now moving forward by living in together. There seems to be a problem, though: Jimmy is 23 and Randy is 40. The big age gap is driving people surrounding Jimmy crazy, especially his family who strongly opposes their plan to move in ... Read More »

Myths About Bisexual Men

The concept of bisexuality has been shrouded by myths. There are a lot of misconceptions about bisexuality because many heterosexuals and even homosexuals misunderstand its nature. The thought of a man who is physically and romantically attracted to both the opposite and same-sex can be really confusing and frequently results in stereotypes. Below are some of the top myths about ... Read More »

Safe Sex for Lesbians and Bisexual Women

Tips on safer sex are usually targeted towards teenagers and gay men, but what about lesbians and bisexual women?  Do they follow the same rules when it comes to protecting oneself from contracting or transmitting sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV and AIDS?  The answer:  yes, and then some. You should also know that there is no 100-percent protection against contracting ... Read More »

Where the Gay and the Lonely Should Go

Life is hard being gay, no matter how seemingly funny they appear in mainstream media.  In reality, gay men struggle to find acceptance in a community.  However, such is not always found within the gay community.  If the gay scene is not for you, perhaps you need to look for other groups or scenes that may make you feel more ... Read More »

Introducing Your Same-Sex Partner to the Family

After your shocking "Yes, I’m gay" revelation, mom and dad suddenly want to meet your same-sex partner. And so, in the same day, you arrange a dinner social at a nearby French restaurant. The meeting is really awkward at first, but your partner and your parents go along well after a few minutes. Your partner passes with flying colors the ... Read More »

Sexual Identities: Gay, Lesbian, Bi or Pansexual

Straight people go for the opposite sex. Gays go for the same sex. Bisexuals enjoy the best of both worlds. But what about those who are sexually and romantically drawn to straight and bisexual men and women, gay guys (top and bottom), lesbians (butch and femme), transgender, transexual, and anyone in between? Can we call them trisexual, quadrisexual, or multisexual? ... Read More »

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