hey dd
so here is the story. one of my friends told me that i should try going out with this girl, but i never met her in my life. so i lurked her on facebook and i made the decision of trying to have a relationship with her. it sounds weird eh? so i talked to one of my other friends, and she thought it was a good idea too so she talked to her too. the girl that i wanted to go out with said she'd be interested but she doesn't know me AT ALL. so she texted me and we used to text ALOT. i thought she was a cool person, so i asked her if she wanted to hang out
she said yes, but when the day would come she would always say some excuse about it and we would reschedule. finally, she said that she wouldn't "lead me on". i dunno why, but Ive been taking it hard. shes pretty popular, more popular than me, and Ive been telling her a lot of honest things to her, like being a big pussy. im scared shes gonna tell others this......i don't even know why im asking you this, i just need to say it to someone.
haha, to be honest i don't know what to ask you. i wanna try and actually meet her, and maybe something would lead on? or just leave it......i dunno
I can already tell by your writing style that you are one cool guy. Listen though, if this girl keeps rescheduling on you then just back off a bit. Leave the ball in her court. Also do not ever worry about opening up, trust me, this is just one thing that sets you apart from all the other guys that she may meet. Your experiences and your thoughts are unique to you and no one else can have them.
I think you seem like a great catch, keep your chin up and know that you have a lot to offer any woman. I always think it is a good rule to never try to just date one girl or one guy at a time. Go out there and start flirting with someone else on Facebook. This will help you not focus too much on one individual. The only time you want to focus hard on one girl or one guy is when you are actually in a committed relationship.
Now have fun, you are young and heartache and confusion does not belong in your life.
Tagged: Breakupsso when do you want to meet
I am not sure who this is, but this site is not for me finding potential mates. The category "Meet People" is there for questions like "how to meet people, where to go?" and so on.
Tagged: Meet Peoplei liked this guy for a really long time and i told him i liked him but then u told him i like someone else what should i do plzzzz help oh and we knew each other since kindergarten and im in 5th grade now
Sweet heart if you are in Fifth grade, then you do not need to be dating!!! Just relax, plenty of boys will be coming your way soon!
Tagged: First DateI have liked this girl from the moment I laid eyes on her. We got to know each other very well and even went on a datewhich went well. She was in the middle of a break with her old boyfriend and now back with him. Although I still see her a few times per week, I did express my feelings towards her. She told me that she likes me and we both want the same things in life, however she still loves him but they will never be together forever. I am confused what I do. I think I opened myself up too much and she wants that father figure type. Can I still win her over? She did say that if she was not with him that she could see being with me.
At this point, you do not need to try to win her over. You said your piece and she knows how you feel about her. You need to show strength and give the impression that you are going to move on. You also need to remember that she chose to go back to her boyfriend. If you really want to get her, then show that you are fine without her!!
Tagged: Dating TipsHow can i win a girl on the first date?
Treat her like a Lady. Make sure to pay for the date and don't even question it. Let her talk and really listen. If you take her to dinner, make sure to go for a walk afterwards. This is always fun and romantic! Basically just show her that you are into her, be respectful and try to make it fun!
Tagged: Seductionwhat is it that keeps a man 100% SURE
that you're the one and only woman for him?
There is really only one way to answer this. He will only be sure if he is sure. Fate, you can't make that happen, but chemistry and confidence has a lot to do with it!
Tagged: Breakups Why a man chooses one woman and not
another, and what makes him STAY
This is just part of the dating experience. In dating, everyone deals with a time where the one they like chooses to date someone else. It goes with the saying that Life Isn't Fair~, Mostly there is not much you can do. It boils down to, Chemistry, attraction and fate. Do not sweat it; there will come a day when a guy chooses you over another woman. "The cycle"
My sister use to always comfort me by saying “Dawn, just think if you liked this guy that much then think how much more you are going to like the guy that is truly meant for you!” This was always exciting to hear, because I am a huge believer in fate. I also know that every time I let time do its walk. I realize that the guy that I thought was so great for me is definitely not!
Believe in fate and get excited! Rejection is hard, but it is also a part of life. Brush it off your shoulders and remind yourself how great you are!
Tagged: BreakupsI have made contact on the phone several times with a prospect but now she never responds anymore. Should I keep calling or trying to make contact ?
No, if she has not responded then move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea who would love your attention!
Tagged: Meet PeopleCan i get my ex back?
Can i get my ex back?
Me and my ex were very much in love and we were with each other for 9 months until we broke up on bad terms we were trying to sort things out i phoned her sometimes and one time she said she loves me and misses me still a week and a bit later she is in a relationship with a ugly lad who has his own place a month in she moves in with him so deleted her on facebook and she has no pictures of him on there and still has pics of me and her she joined 2 groups 1 saying will you remember cause i will never forget you and the other im not ignoring you im waiting to see if you make the effort first .The other day i see her in a club with her friends where she keeps looking across the dancefloor at one time she stared at me trying to hold the look and i turn my head to show im not bothered towards the end of the night she comes to the exact bar where im standing and i ignored her again .I still have strong feelings for her do you think she still has feelings for me
The signs are obvious to me that she does have feelings for you and they are obvious to you as well. Can you get her back? I am sure that you can but my question to you is, does it not bother you that she moved in with a new boyfriend??
I am not sure what made the two of you breakup but you can be sure that this looks like a relationship that will be full of drama and you will end up breaking up again shortly after you get back together.
Sorry if this is harsh, but someone has to give the ugly truth!
Good luck!
DD
Tagged: BreakupsI dated one lady one time when we had dinner together. She seemed pleased with my company and told I was interesting. She said she would like to see me again. She is always busy however and also says she never likes talking on the phone but prefers to text. That is why she said she didn't return my phone calls. Perhaps she is really working a lot. I really think she is probably just not interested. What did I do or not do ? Or was it anythig I did or not ? Is there any point in staying after this one ?
Just move on. She is giving you lame excuses, even if she prefers to text she would have responded to your phone calls. You should only call twice at the most and if you never here back then do not call again.
There are more fish in the sea!
Good luck!
Tagged: Online DatingI'm very private, quiet person. I'm usually alone most of the time and perfectly fine with it. I never take the initiative to meet people. I am very close to my family, but that's about it. I don't have any friends or people that I want to hang out with. But I'm interested in having a relationship. The problem is how to approach girls. It's not like I'm scared; it's more like I don't exactly know what to say. I'm just not as emotionally attached to people as most others are. How do I go about making connections with people? I feel like I'm not giving people the right vibes.
Dear Wanting a Relationship,
I completely understand that you are a very private, quite person who likes to be alone most of the time, The problem with that is you will never meet anyone just hanging out with yourself. I think the easiest way for you to meet someone is to join a online dating site. Here you could give your bio, let women know about you and what you are looking for. I would also suggest to start with baby steps and try hard to make other relationships in your life. It is great that you are close to your family, but everyone needs friends. You can actually start practicing your social skills on the people around you. I know personally a work enviroment is a great place to build relationships. A work week is typically 40hrs, that is alot of time to spend with someone, start getting more involved with others around you. Tips on how to do this?? Show interest in them. Ask them about their weekend, ask about their family or girlfriend/boyfriend. Making connections start with caring about the people around you and showing it. I think you are going to do great, just step out of your own skin and try to experience a new you!
Tagged: Meet PeopleHow can one control jealousy in a relationship
The first step to learning to control jealously in a relationship is realizing what your actions are causing your partner. Now a little jealously is healthy and can actually be a small reminder to your partner that you know just how wonderful she/ he is. But when it causes you to fight and take the life out of another person. It becomes a controlling issue.
# Jealousy is a poorly disguised need for power and control. Jealous people are tyrannical, controlling, domineering and completely insensitive to the impact of their actions on their partner. Are you getting a power trip off of this? Is the payoff that you keep your partner on a short leash and completely under your control?
# Choose to respect your partner and make some different choices. You have more power in your love, respect, personality and magnetism than you do in control. You can't make him come home, but you can make him want to come home.
Tagged: JealousyHow can one find out when a relationship is coming to an end.
This is a great question. The first clue that the relationship is coming to an end is when you ask a question like this. The truth is if everything was going great you wouldn't even be asking this question. Other clues are, as followed below.
S/he is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you.
You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.
When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message
S/he says s/he is one place but is really another.
You don't seem to connect anymore
Her/his friends seem distant
The lovin' is gone!
You seem to be fighting a lot about little things
You just can't seem to do ANYTHING right
You avoid any conversation that begins with "we have to talk" or "I don't know how to say this.
Tagged: Dating TipsI have never touched a girl before, danced with a girl before, or made an attempt to make any physical contact. I'm always afraid that I'm going to come across as being weird. How do you go about knowing when it is right to make physical contact? What do you look for?
Well, it is actually normal for everyone to get nervous when it comes to the first physical contact with the opposite sex. The best way to go about something like this is to remember that you are not alone!
Now knowing when to go in for the reach. My advice is to look for signs. Ask yourself, Is she interested? Is she smiling alot? Is her body language inviting? Does she hold eye contact? You should be able to get a vibe off of the girl you are interested in. Look for clues and just take the plunge. Go for it! She expects you to make the first move!!
Tagged: FlirtingI have had a casual friendship with a co-worker for a year or two but can't seem to stop wondering what it would be like to kiss him . . . or date him. We seem to be mutually attracted to one another but have sort of established a buddy-type relationship. Im wanting more and more to get bold and find the right moment to kiss him (outside of work, of course) to see what it feels like. . . . Can you give me any words of wisdom on this situation?
For one you could just lay it on him outside of work, wait for a moment when it seems to be open. Look for clues to see how he feels. I have to ask though, Who determined the buddy-type relationship? If he has made more than a one coment that you guys are buddies, then I am afraid that, he is letting you know that you are just buddies and while he likes you and obviously has fun with you, He may just see it as only that.
I only give you this warning because I would hate for you to lay it on him and get embarrased if he does not want the same.
I typically advise women to let the guy pursue her.
But if neither of you have actually made clear statements that you really are a buddy-type, then girl get your flirt on. Dress up, make him notice you. Give him those come here eyes, eyes that speak desire!
Good luck, sweetie and let me know if you need some more detailed ideas on how to get him to notice you!!
Tagged: RelationshipsI'm a socially awkward sort of person. I'm a very committed individual, but I'm not a touchy-feely sort of person. I would like to know where to find girls who are independent thinkers. I like being criticized and yearn to improve whenever I can. The only thing is: I hate small talk. I'm a very introverted person, but I'm a great listener. However, I'm not in tune with people's feelings. I can't even tell when someone is trying to flirt with me or likes me. And I'm very skeptical in nature. I am obsessed with classical music and want to become the conductor of an orchestra, but no one really appreciates my passionate attitude. I've never come across curious minded girls. Tell me how to meet people who are more like me.
First of all I would like to say that it is not a bad thing neccessarily to be socially akward. I get the feeling that you may be a little eccentric, which is actually good!
I would suggest going to do the things you love, like the live classical music concerts and maybe hanging out at a coffee shop where you might find more deep thinkers. I would also suggest joining a online dating service, where you can express yourself more through the questionnaire. You seem comfortable expressing yourself through writing.
You need to work on being more in tune with peoples feelings. Read up on the signs of flirting. Study on how to become more social and aware of your surroundings. I find this one of the most important keys to finding a mate. The opprotunity to find love is in everyday and everywhere you go. Trust me, you sound like an interesting guy. Be confident and excited to share your passions with women.
Good Luck!
Tagged: Meet Peoplenew boyfriend was meant to ring/text but hasnt? hes been working away and seems caught up with the boys in pub? why do men say they will ring+dont
Listen, he is not keeping his word. I do not care how busy he is, it does not take but a few seconds to text and say I am thinking about you. I honestly would confront him and let him know how it makes you feel and if he is sincerely sorry, then good. If he get upset with you for caring and trys to manipulate you by saying that you are, controlling or possessive or suffocating then drop him like its hot!!
Tagged: Dating IssuesI like this guy who I see every day multiple times.He's single and so am I.How do I get him to notice me.
How Do I Get Him To Notice Me?
First of all, dress up in a way that shows off your assets. Let him know that you take care of yourself. Secondly, smile alot. Guys go crazy over a smile, Lastly make strong eye contact. Believe me, if someone is looking at you, it is instinct to know why!
Good luck babe!
Tagged: FlirtingGirl i like broke up with her boyfriend. Advice
Met her last year on holiday. Spent the week together. When she got back she got back with her long term boyfriend. Her friends told me to keep interested as they say she liked me and that her and her boyfriend always split up. Now 9 months later she has split up with him. Contact with her has deterioted since this and may only speak to each other when we see each other on a night out or rarely on facebook. I have her facebook/phone number. Should I contact her/perhaps leave it until I see her again when on a night out to talk to her or do nothing. Possibilities but just need advice. Still like her after all this time, and really want to get involved with her again
It is best to wait till you see her again. Contacting her would seem to desperate even though I know you are not. When you do see her, just flirt with her a bit and let her be the one to bring up that she and her boyfriend broke up. You could then say that we should get together and catch up. But, make sure to not rush into it. Let her sit and wait a bit. After a couple days or a week, contact her and see if she wants to get coffee or lunch. Remember, she already had a chance with you and she went back to her boyfriend. She will need to help initate this relationship a bit because she knew that you liked her before. So it is not neccessarily your job to woo her in as strong. Let her know what she has been missing though and play it cool!
Tagged: RelationshipsIm married and dating a guy who has a girlfriend i have deep feelings for this guy and he say,s the same we spend days and time online talking about sex and sometimes internet sex..we text alot too..but during the weekends he is always with his girlfriend which whenever he is with her he never replies my texts so im confused what type of a relaton is this?
ok I do not understand why you are asking what kind of relationship this is that you are involved in. YOU ARE MARRIED!!! Why are you dating someone else?? It seems that the two of you are two of a kind. What kind of relationship is this??? A Very Messed Up One!!! I don't know what is going on in your marriage that is making you look so much elsewhere, but you need to do a major soul search and ask yourself "when did it become ok to be so deceptive to your husband?"
I serioulsy hope that you will understand that the relationship you are in with this other man is not real. He does not truely care about you. If he did, he would not have a girlfriend, and your conversations would be more than sex! You also wouldnt be questioning your relationship with him, and asking what kind it is? He would of already defined it for you!
Good luck sweetie and do some soul searching. Please consider your husband and look at what you are doing to him!
Tagged: Breakupsone married girl(her husban left her) is showing interest in me & she actually want me to take her on a date ,, but i am scared whther she will blackmail me after this or what ?????
The phrase "Married Girl" is what it is, she is still married even if her husband left her. If you can not be just a friend then do not mess with her. This is not a healthy situation and will only lead to drama. Trust me!!!
Tagged: First DateTODAY DURING COMPUTER CLASS A GIRL ASKED ME TO ACCOMPANY HER TO THE BANK AND I DID SO.WE WENT TO THE BOOKSHOP AND SHE EVEN BOUGHT A CAKE FOR THE TWO OF US.WE THEN WENT TO THE BANK TO BANK A CHECK.ALONG THE WAY SHE COMPLAINED THAT SHE WAS NOT READY TO GO HOME CAUSE SHE WILL BE BORED.AS WE WERE GOING TO THE STAGE TO PART WAYS SHE GRADUALLY CHANGED HER ATTITUDE.WHY DID SHE DO SO OR WAS IT THAT I DID NOT DO WHAT SHE WAS EXPECTING ME TO DO?(SEDUCE HER) AND IF SO HOW CAN I DO THAT CAUSE SHE HAS ALREADY SEE NO MANHOOD IN ME.
Dear Manhood,
You are worrying way too much. If she was interested in you today then she will be interested in you tomorrow. A girl is not completely turned off by a guy just because he doesn't catch a clue that maybe she would of liked to kiss you. This may actually make you more of a challenge. Do not spend anymore time worried and if the opportunity comes up again, then you can show her your manhood and grab that pretty face and kiss her!
Tagged: SeductionPliz doc i just have a crush on a particular girl but i don't know how to ask her out or let her know I like her.pliz help with some lines that i can drop on her!
Dear Needing Pick up lines,
Let your crush know your feelings by giving her attention. If you are too shy to say anything then just make eye contact and smile.
You could always flirt with her through social networking like Facebook. Simply ask her to be a friend and like her photos or like something that she has posted. If you feel like you are getting feed back in a positive manner then go ahead and ask her for coffee or a movie. You don't need any pick up lines. Girls can see through those. Just be yourself!
Basically, It takes balls to ask a girl out. You will just have to take the plunge and see what happens.
Tagged: Pickup Lineshi there just wanted to know,there is this guy that i really like a lot and we had something going for a while,but were not serious because i didn't like him that time so mush,but now i realty like him a lot..the thing is his back with his ex again but i really want him back,what should i do?
Dear Regretful,
I wish I could tell you to steal the guy back from his girlfriend, but that just wouldn’t be right. All you can do at this time is be his friend and wait for an opportune time to tell him how you feel.
I also want to say that you need to look at your heart and make sure you really like this guy as a boyfriend, and that you are not just wanting something that isn’t yours anymore.
Good luck Sweetie!
Tagged: BreakupsI would like to know what are some quick clues to tell if a women is open to single and open to meeting someone new ? Also, I am shy and find it hard to meet new people, can you give me some quick advice on how I can overcome my shyness ? Thanx very much.
You will find that a woman, who is open to dating, is most likely looking herself. She is the girl whose eyes are everywhere. If you look at her, she will most likely hold contact a little longer than usual. She is also usually dressed to impress a man rather than a woman. Her clothes may be a little tighter and more revealing than usual.
I understand that you are shy. Lucky for you, girls like shy guys. They find them safer than dating the outgoing, life of the party kind of guy! I would say that you need to work on your confidence rather than just being shy.
Ways of conquering this is to" Just Do it!"( Like the Nike saying). Basically, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Give yourself pep talks. For instance, I rock, I’m Hot, who wouldn’t want this stud muffin!! Haha, I’m kidding. But in the same manner, just have fun with yourself, don’t take anything too seriously, and remember for every no, comes a yes!
Tagged: Dating Tipsi have been dating this guy for a month now he seems sweet he wouldcome over for lunch we never go anyware together he works alot at times he would say that he would come over to see me but he never.he said he like me and wants to know me better i really like him but think he is playing me sometimes he would not call or text he said he is single but i do not believe him because he would never invite me to his place he alwyas wants to come to my place he is also off from work the same weekend when i'm off but he still would not have time for me.he came over yesterday we made love thenhe left cause he had to pick his daughter up from the air port.i text him about an hour after he left to make sure he was ok but he never call me until 8pm and he said his phone is not working properly i kept calling and texting but he would not reply but at 1am he text good night can you please give an advice is he playing me
Honey, just the fact that you think he is playing you is a good indicator on whether he is or not. Women have this special gift called “intuition”, It is that silent voice so deep in your spirit that you cannot ignore it. Your intuition is saying that you are being played and I do believe you are as well.
1. You have never been to his place.
2. He does not “date you” This meaning, he never takes you anywhere! Guys usually like to show off the woman he is so proud to call his girl friend.
3. He does not return your messages at a timely manner.
4. The biggest problem for me is, HE came over, and had sex with you and then left!!
Why would you give a man your special gift, (this being your special place!); when he has not even shown you any respect or real adoration. But, most importantly, Love!
I want to tell you that this is not what you are looking for and it is not what you deserve! Please take some time out and ask yourself why you are even in this relationship.
Bottom Line,-yes he is playing you!
Tagged: Dating Issuesi am having problem with my nextdoor neighbour because we were having an fair and she ruined my relationship with my girlfriend and we broke up because she told her i was sleeping with her and she love and she is not ready to leave me for my girlfriend and my girlfriend left me because of this.So after all this i went back to my neighbour thinking that she truly love me as she said but after a month and 2weeks,she gave me the shock of my life by telling that she has a new guy and the new guy is the person she want to be with and she brings in the new guy into her house which i live next to her room and with this i am feel depressed and disturbut,because i feel she loves and she cant do something like that to me and i love her too.but now i need help so that i will get over the heart truma.She does nt care how i feel because i went on my knee pleading to know what was wrong but all she told me was to go back to my ex girlfriend.
Dear Cheater,
Listen, she only wanted you because you were a taken man. You deserved each other and now she doesn’t want you, AWESOME!
How could you of been sleeping with another woman when you already had a girlfriend? I am a little confused if you really think that I could have anything to say to you, that would comfort you. But I will try, Take this as a lesson in your love life and only commit to a woman who you can be faithful too. After all, is it really a relationship if you are not all the way in it? Learn to love and value yourself, this will help you love and value another!
In the mean time, cry as hard and as long as you can for one day then just get over it and say goodbye to your past!
Tagged: Breakupshave not heard from you. picture looks cute. so want to meet sometime for a cup of coffee?
I do not date from this site. I am sorry, but thank you for the compliments.
Tagged: FlirtingThere is a guy i have been dating for couple of months now, i got to know him tru my classmate in the univ who happens to be his sis,i am planning to go for my masters abroad by dec while he is equally planning the same thing but the problem is that he does not want to go to the same country with me he stylishly refused application to my school, which means we will not be seeing often for some years to come and he is equally asking me to be his wife.my fear is that could it be that he never meant what he professed bcouse age is no more on my side and i would wish to get settled while am on my masters programm hopefully early next year,but he does not seem to see things from my perspective.thanks i need a convincing response.
Dear Needing Convincing,
When I read what you wrote, the one thing that sticks out to me is that the two of you have only been dating a couple of months and you have already spoken about marriage. That alone is not too troubling except that if that was the true direction of your relationship then it seem like he should be trying to be wherever you are. The fact that both of you want to study abroad and he didn’t even try to apply to the same school, reads RED FLAG. I would suggest that you have a serious conversation with him and try to read even what he is not saying. ACTIONS, speak louder than words, especially MEN- They are driven by actions!!This is one of the ways you can be certain that he means what he says!
Tagged: Relationshipshow to satisfy my wife
Communication is the key. Find out what turns her on and be willing to do whatever it takes to please her. Great sex, starts long before the act. Flirt with her, let her know you are thinking about her. A woman wants to be desired deeply by her man. It will actually turn her on to know that you are so turned on by her! Start with sexy text messages through the day and end the night with a bottle of wine and some Marvin Gaye playing!
Tagged: SexualityWhat should i do when a girl likes me?
Well if you like her as well, ask her to go on a date. Be attentive and let her know you like her as well.
Tagged: Teen DatingI sometimes like to smuggle 40 ounces of Old English, Mad Dog, or Boones Farm wine into movies. I sometimes drink so many that I wake up the next morning hung over, sitting in the same movie seat wondering "how have i done this again?" A girl I really like even says that I am an alcoholic and that my movie habits are a red flag. What do I do?
Stop drinking so darn much! If I was this girl, I would definitely say that this is a Major RED Flag! Remember that a Lady wants to be with a Man and he needs to show her that he is not so dependent on Alcohol! She needs to know that she can trust him and feel safe with him. Believe me, there is no safety in a man who drinks way too much!
Tagged: BreakupsI like to be eatin greasy chips when im on a date. Sometimes i wipe the grease on my shirt, and eat an entire bag in one sitting. Thats hot right?
Listen, do not eat any chips on a date! Never wipe your hands on your shirt! If you continue down this path, you will end up a chubby slob with no sex appeal!
Tagged: Breakupswhat do you do if you feel like you and your boyfriend are gonna break up
Take a deep breath, make sure you communicate your concerns and know that if it does end, you will be alright. You have a life time to find the right man. Do not settle for a relationship that has too many insecurities
Tagged: RelationshipsI would like to know where is the best places to meet women who do not drink ?
This question has been answered if you look below. It should be in the top five questions. I would also add, that you will not find her in a bar! hehe...
Tagged: Dating TipsI recently was semi-introduced to a girl by a mutual friend. She seemed interesting so we met up the other night at a local bar. I arrived at the bar early with some friends and she arrived later, alone. She was beautiful, and got along very well with my friends, only problem was I couldn't get a word in because one of my friends was such a talker.
Realizing the importance of first impressions I am kind of nervous that she didn't get to know me well at all and I may not get a second date. I think she is semi-jaded from past relationships, and not very interested in dating to begin with.
She has a good poker face and I really dont get much feedback from her. Any advice?
Well, my advice would be to not worry so much. If this girl was completely turned off by your friend who was obviously a big talker than she would be pretty judgmental and may not be a girl you would want to mess with in the first place.
Truly first impressions are important! I am sure you made a good one. Did you at least check to see if she got home ok? If so, you scored!
Tagged: First DateNo question, just a comment- you have a great smile boo.
Thank you!
Tagged: Dating TipsI've been talking to this guy over the phone for 2 1/2 months now and we first got to know each other like a year ago and we talked for a couple months then but we went on a date and I was really shy and the date didnt go good and I didn't think that he really wanted to take it further so we just kept in on a casual level and just txtd each other from time to time but recently he started back texting me and acting like he's interested again, he started out calling me names like "boo" and "sweety" and giving me compliments but now he doesn't say it as often and he's currently not working so we haven't been out on another date yet and I want to and he acts like he wants to also but I think that because he doesnt have a job now or a vehicle that he's holding back from asking me. I know that hes a good guy and he's the kind of guy that I would love to date and have something with but I want to know if you think it's worth my time? I saw it like this, since he made the first step and started things back up that it had to be for a reason and maybe he wants me to be the one but he's in a bad place rite now and don't know how to deal with it. Can u help me..please!!
Sweety, I understand that you like this guy alot and would love to date him. I just want to give you some advice on getting involved with someone in the position he is in. He doesnt have a job or a vehicle right now. He is not in a postion to truely date you! I would keep this on a friendship level right now. Let him get his act together so he can be the man he really wants to be. Let him get in a position to be completely confident so that if he is the one, then he will be able to pursue you the way he wants too!
Tagged: Dating Tipsplaces to meet non drinking women
I think the best place to meet women who do not drink would in a church. I would join a single's group and get involved enough to where you can meet women like this. Another option would be to join an online dating site. These sites usually have a long questionnaire and will give you the opportunity to express what you are looking for. These sites usually have an "about you" area where you will be able to read the woman's profile and get a good idea of what it is that she is about. I hope this helps? Let me know if you need more options!
Tagged: Dating Tipsi have been seeing a guy for 7 weeks on casual dates. i really like him.
two week ago, he invite himself to come to my place. we arange a date and time. two days before the date, he text to say he will not be able to come. he did not give any reasons. i text him back to say it's ok if i can come. he has not call or text me since then.
does this mean he has find someone better and he has dump me?
I would not say that he has found someone better or that he has dumped you. I would say that he is doing you a favor by being a complete jerk!! You deserve much better and please do not ever settle for this kind of relationship.
You deserve a man who will pursue you with his whole heart. This kind of man will never last minute back out of plans that were made. This kind of man will want to show characters of the prince that you deserve!!
Tagged: Breakupsi told my second boyfriend about my first boyfriend before accepting to date him,now he want me to breakup with the first guy or he end the relationship.wat should i do.
Well, I am a little confused why you have two boyfriends? Just because you told him about the first boyfriend does not mean he has to accept it. If he has a brain he will leave you anyways!
I don't mean to be so harsh with you, but I can not say it is ok for you to toy with these guys hearts. Please investigate your own heart and try to see why you are doing this.
You ultimately want to be with someone you respect and whom also respects you. You are definelty not respecting the guys that you are dating right now!
Tagged: Breakupshow do u know if a boy has cheated on u
My answer to this is LISTEN to your intuition, it is usually right on.
You will notice a difference in how he treats you. If you do not feel like you are the only one, then chances are you're not!
Tagged: Breakupshey, i really think this girl at school is really attractive...i really wanna go out with her, i tried to talk to her on facebook but she didnt answer... is that a sign that shes not into me? if not (hopefully) how am i supposed to make her like me? and go out with her?
First of all you need to make her notice you. Flirt with her. Try some extended eye contact or maybe offer to help her carry her books to her class. I would not send too many messages on facebook though. You need to get her attention in person.
Remember girls like confident guys. Be sincere and show her how you feel about her. Most importantly, be a guy whose actions speak louder than words!!
Tagged: Teen DatingI took my friend out to eat and since then she has called me once.Did I do something wrong.
I don't think so. Have you called her?
She may be more traditional and is waiting on you to call her more. I know that I don't like to call guys in less we are already in a firm relationship. You have to understand that most girls are taught to not call the guys. She will appreciate your ability to take the lead. Go ahead and call her and show confidence!
Tagged: Teen Datingmy boy friend was traped by married women wen he was in 12th.now he wants to marry me.now she is black mailing him by threatening him
I am sorry I am not following this very well. Is there a question here? Please write back with more detail and a more direct question. I would love to help you.
Tagged: Relationshipsi been dating for 10 months and he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend
Dump him! Do not waste your time any longer!! There is a man out there who cant wait to be your boyfriend, become available so he can find you!!!
Tagged: Dating Tipsme and my wife were seperated for a few weeks and I cheated on her with some girl I don't care about. My wife and I are back together but I feel so horrible. What should I do? I'm afraid if I tell her she will leave me.
It seems to me that there are major issues in your marriage considering you already separated for a few weeks and then ended up cheating on her while separated. I would advise the two of you to go to see a counselor and start working through your problems. I think that it is only fair for you to tell her what you did. Sooner or later the truth always comes out, and it is better coming from you then anyone else. Be bold! You will only find true happiness in your relationships, when you have nothing to fear. That means, not hiding even when you mess up!
Tagged: CheatingI'm going on a date with a really hot girl i like on Saturday. I drive a real clunker car and know she likes nice cars, she's mentioned it before. She's never seen my car, I'm thinking of renting a car to impress her, or maybe borrow my friend's Corvette. What do you think?
I say show up in your clunker! Why would you want to date someone if they are going to be shallow? You should be more concerned about impressing her with your charm and with a sincere heart!
Tagged: First DateHow long after a breakup should I wait to start dating again?
The only way to be sure of the right time to date is to work through the emotions after a break up. Sometimes this takes more time than expected. There is nothing worse than getting involved in a rebound relationship, because someone always gets hurt. It is important to have fun, good friends, and a healthy support network. Also, depending on how painful the breakup is, seeing a therapist – even for a couple of sessions – can be helpful in getting over your ex and moving on at the right time.
Deciding to start dating again after a big break up is up to the individual, and it should be made with eyes open and an honest awareness of the state of your heart. If you are not completely over your ex, then take more time out for yourself. Don't try too hard to awaken love before you are truly ready!
Questions to ask yourself.
How would you react if your ex called?
How do you respond when you hear a love song or romantic music?
Can you talk about your ex, without getting angry or upset?
What would be your reaction if you saw your ex on a date?
Can you come up with an explanation of why your relationship failed, without being bitter?
Is your head and heart in a place that you can fully embrace and appreciate a new and wonderful prospect?
Tagged: Breakupswent out with wonderful girl..everything was going great..the connections..kisses,now does not return phone calls text etc...i really feel that i love her
I am sorry to hear that she is not returning your phone calls, text messages, ect.. It seems to me that while you thought it was going so well maybe she didn't think the same.
I would suggest that you lay low and wait for her to contact you. At this point you need to act like you don't care as much as you do. She will most likely wonder why you are still not calling her and may ignite feelings for you that she didn't know she had. Try to be more mysterious and cause her to think more about you!
Tagged: Breakupsso yeah, i went out with this girl last summer for a pretty long time, and i reallllyy miss the memories we have, and i think i still like her from even the summer. when i wanna talk to her, i just look like a fool and i feel like she knows that i still like her which i dont. and she always looks at me sometimes. so heres my question. how should i win her back? and when shes looking at me frequently, is that i sign?
Anytime someone is giving extended eye contact or constant eye contact, it is a good sign and she is most likely trying to get your attention. You obviously still have feelings for her. I would just simply tell her that you miss her and that you think about her often. Let her know that you miss spending time with her and then ask if she feels the same way.
Don’t worry about making a fool of yourself. When it comes to love, if you are not a fool, then you are not in love! It’s a good thing!!
Tagged: Rebound RelationshipsWhat do you have to say about long distance relationships?can real love exist?
Long distance relationships take a lot of extra nurturing. You hear all the time how hard long distance relationships are. I actually tried a long distance relationship. I came to the conclusion that if the two of us were really meant to be, then it would be. You see, neither of us was willing to move, and without one of us taking the step to live closer to each other, then the relationship would stay at a standstill and would not go anywhere. All in all, it can work, but only for so long. One of you will have to make a move in order for the relationship to go forward.
Yes, real love exist!! Wait for it and be patient!!
Good luck Sweetie!
Tagged: Long Distance RelationshipsMy boyfriend and I have been together for a year and started having sex after 5 months. is it too late to be monogamous with him?
It is never too late to become monogamous!!
Tagged: Relationshipswhat happens if you date a girl with Leucemia?
Here are the most common emotions that patients of Leukemia deal with.
* Shock
* Stress
* Sadness or Despression
* Fear
* Anger
* Guilt
This can be a lot for someone to deal with. I would tell you to make sure that your first position in this relationship, is to be the best friend you can be. Try to be aware of all that this girl is going through and be prepared to be a major support for her. As far as telling you what happens, the outcome is different for everyone in this sort of relationship. Take the information I gave you and ask yourself if you are ready for what this relationship requires.
Good luck!!
Tagged: Dating Issueswhats the best way to play hard to get
The best way to play hard to get is to be hard to get. Make sure that you stay close with your friends. Have interest and hobbies. Know your worth. Make sure the person, whom you decide to date, makes you a priority and really pursues you. Only then do you become open for more time with him or her. All of this will make you hard to get and well worth it when he/she gets you!!!
Tagged: Dating Tipsmy boyfriend and i have been together for close to a year now,bt for some months now,he has been out of work and so i have to support him with my income hoping he would get a job soon,my mom and my friends dont think he is fit for me.recently our next door neighbours daughter came back from school,she is very busty and all the guys around started talking of sleeping with her,i came home one day and there was a fight going on between my boyfriend and the girls elder sister,then i gathered from people that my boyfriend took her into our apartment all night since i went to my folks,i confronted him over dis issue and he clearly denied it,saying she was in with his friend and not him.and i believed him,but i became suspicious,i conducted a search on my own and found out my boyfriend was actually having a relationship with her,i read all their messages,i called d both of them together,he broke down and started begging me in her front that he loves me and he is sorry,that the guys made him do it.he made her feel cheap in my front,said she meant nothing to him,that he did not sleep with her,bt only touched her breast.she tried creating a scene bt he walked her out,i couldnt get over the shock for two days.now i find it hard to trust him anymore.
also our love making isnt so passionate anymore,he gets on me and climbs down once he is ok,even though am not satisfied,i dnt feel like a woman anymore.should i break up with him,he cant satisfy me financially and now sexually and i cant trust him anymore.what should i do?i know this sound dumb but i really do love him,and when he had money he was really good to me,i guess he is feeling less than a man with his present financial state.what do uyou think?
Dump this Guy!!! Quickly!!! He is not providing financially for you, he is not respecting you, plus he is not satisfying your needs.
I can not believe the excuse he gave you for cheating on you! No one can make someone cheat! He obviously hangs out with a very immature crowd.
This situations gives me the conclusion that you are very young. With that said, you have plenty of time to find your perfect mate. I want to suggest that you get out of the relationship you are in and do not get in another until you have spent some time learning more about yourself. I think the more you value yourself, the more a man will value you!!
Good luck sweetie!
Tagged: Dating IssuesI've been dating this guy for a year now, and I want to take it to the next level. I'm 35 years old and want to get married and start a family! How do i prod him in that direction without scaring him off, he is still into hanging out with his buddies on the weekends! My biological clock is ticking away!!!!!
I say honesty is the best policy. He is not ignorant of your age or of your time line. If he cannot handle this very important concern, then you are wasting your time. It is better to find out now then later. I am actually a little worried that you have not spoken about these kinds of issues after dating a man for a year. You need to be bold and open about your feelings, a man who loves you will care about your concerns.
Tagged: RelationshipsI am a stay at home type of guy and I have a hard time date because i am not into the party scene but most of the girls i have meet are so it does not last because they prefer the bad boy image. Do you have any suggestions. Should i break out of my mole and do things i do not want to do?
Just because you do not like the party scene does not mean that you are a complete stay at home kinda guy. There are many things you can do that do not require going into the party scene. Try to be creative in your dating options. A girl likes to feel special and if the only option for you is to stay in then it will get boring.
It is a complete wrong perception that girls like the bad boy image. Girls like guys that are interesting. Guys that keep her on her toes. This does not mean girls like jerks or bad boys. It means they like someone who makes them think. Romance!! If you want to truely impress a girl, take her to a nice restrauant that features a band. Take her on a picnic. You could also let her in on your interest. If you like sports, then take her to a game. If you enjoy the outdoors, take her fishing. Just try to be interesting!! Girls love it!!!
Tagged: Dating TipsMy girlfriend only likes one position. She likes the cowgirl position and nothing else. She says all the other ways it gets too deep and hurts. What should I do? It's gotten really boring doing the same old position.
Sometimes you need to be patient. You also need to understand that sex does not just start as soon as you are in the bedroom. Start with flirting throughout the day. Send her sexy messages. You need to spend more time trying to turn her on. I think that you guys need to also spend more time communicating your needs to one another.
Sex is an act that expresses your desire and love for each other. Start with that idea and really believe it and I think that the desire to please one another will open up to greater heights in your sex life.
Tagged: Intimacywhen your boyfriend tells you that he needs to step away and clear his head, what does that exactly mean?
It depends, If his steping away means from You then the relationship is in the beginings of a breakup. How quick depends on you. He is slowly stepping away and if you if let him continue to come back then it will be a longer process but it will most definitly end sooner or later.
If his stepping away just means that he needs some more time alone or with his friends but he has not declared it as a break from the relationship, then maybe he really does need some room. In all relationships it is important to continue to have time for yourself and time for friends.
Tagged: RelationshipsI have had a short relationship with a girl, I am Caucasian, she is African American. I don't know if it will work long term, I Don't know if my family will ever accept her, what would you do?
I say true love does not see color! If you really care about her then I would set your fears aside. Your family will love whomever you choose to love.
Tagged: Dating IssuesMy girlfriend is a little homely, I love her, but am embarassed in front of my friends> For this reason I usually leave her at home when we go out! Lately she has been pushing me to take her along> What should I do?
For crying out loud TAKE HER. She is your girlfriend. If you are embarrassed to take her out then you don't deserve her! If you think she is too homely then take her shopping and tell her you would really appreciate her dressing up for you. If you encourage her through compliments this will be a easier process!
Tagged: Dating IssuesSex on first date?
Heck No!
Tagged: First Datewhen are you going to call Carlos and say hello?
My Carlito! Kisses and Hugs! I will be calling you tonight!
Tagged: Meet Peopletell me about yourself
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Tagged: Dating TipsMy girlfriend is kinda on the lazy side. she is always reading a book or sleeping and does not get up to go out and do things. Iam a very active person and iI do not like sitting around. Should i dump her and find another girlfriend that like going out or do you think I can change my current girlfriend?
Talk to her and tell her how much you would enjoy doing things that involve being active with her. Don’t ever say she is lazy though. #1. It is negative. #2. Reading is actually exercising her brain!
You obviously like physical exercise and she seems to like mental exercise. I would suggest entering each others worlds and respect each others differences!
How open the both of you are for some change will dictate if your relationship will last or not.
Good Luck!
Tagged: Relationshipswhats the best way to get over a broken heart?
Only time heals a broken heart. But in the meantime, I suggest taking some time for deep reflection. Find out what it was about the person that made you love him/her so much. Also reflect on where you could have seen the signs of when this relationship was on a downward spiral. This will prepare you for a future relationship, and believe me there will be one!
Also, it is important to make some fun outings with friends. Remember that true friends are for a lifetime. Fill your spare time with people who make you feel better about yourself.
Someone close to me always said, if you loved him/her that much; think how much more you will love the man/woman that God has for you in marriage! This kind of thought always gave me the strength to push ahead and know that true love is waiting!!
Tagged: BreakupsI have a guy friend who I really like and who I think is into me as well. I want to ask him out on a casual, friendly date, but don't know how to without being weird- we are good friends. Also, he is almost always with a group of 3 or 4 other friends (who are my friends too) so how do I ask him out without being obvious that I don't want the others to tag along on this friendly date?
Since you guys are good friends, I am sure that you text message each other. I would send a simple text saying, hey do you want to go see a movie? Say something like, "I really would like to see it, but I cant find anyone who want's to go." This is a easy way to ask him to do something with just you!
Tagged: Dating TipsI just found out the guy I have been dating is a married man. I really like this guy but I do not know what to do. Should I wait around or should I also date other guys while I wait?
Hello! He is married! Leave him alone and find someone else!
Tagged: Dating IssuesI meet this girl a week ago and we hit it off. i call her about 10 times aday but she does not return my calls. What should i do. would you go to her house and find out whats going on?
NO WAY Crazy!! She doesn't like you! Hints, never returning your phone calls!
Tagged: Meet PeopleDD i have been dating this guy for awhile and he is a nice guy but he has a big belly which is a real turn off for me. how do i tell him nicely to lose it or lose me?
Haha this is rough! I would simply tell him that it is important to you to be physically attracted to him. Let him know that you want to have a great sex life in the future and that a big belly might just get in the way!!
Tagged: Dating IssuesHow do I approach a good looking girl and get her to open up to me
This takes confidence! Believe that you are HOT STUFF and approach her knowing it! Everyone is attracted to someone who seems to know their worth.
The first thing I would do before approaching her though, is make eye contact. See if she responds well to you. You will have a pretty clear idea of how she feels by her reaction!
Tagged: Pickup Lineshey again. thanks for replying, great advice.
i just have one more question for you DD. i have like this best friend, and shes been helping me alot with my relsionships over the years. we hang out alot and stuff, but now it feels like i like her. i dunno, it might be just the old hormones kickin in, but i dunno. should i tell her or is that just weird?
I would try to make some hint's first. For instance, give her some extended eye contact and she how she reacts. If you feel like she is responding positively then go ahead with the confession! I do not think you are weird for developing feelings for a girl that you consider a best friend. I think that it is wonderful!
Tagged: Dating TipsHi DD, You look quite young but somehow I believe you concerning the experience factor. I am approaching the big 60 though many say I look 10 years younger. I was married 35 years and frankly barely dated before I married. How do I get started? Kitty Cat
Well Hi Kitty Cat,
I first want to say congratulations on approaching the big 60! Secondly I know I may look young but like you my looks are a little deceiving. I have had a lot of experience in this dating world and have figured out the tools to be successful. It must be scary to get back in the dating game after being married for so long and you might feel like you have lost all ability to flirt or be noticed. Let me help you!
1. Remember that there are potential mates everywhere. Always be aware of your surroundings and be sure to let that single vibe flow through you. If there is a single man around he will catch on to the vibe you are putting out.
2. Join the single's life groups at your church or in your community. You can easily go on Google and look up single groups in your area.
3. Join a social networking site. examples, www.Facebook.com , www.blogster.com or POF.com
4. Lastly, remember to have fun! Dating is an adventure and with adventure comes the fun!
Tagged: Senior Datingi have been dating a boy for 2 months and he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. should i worry?
Depends, are you spending a lot of time together? Do you feel important to him? It is in my experience that when dating a guy, their actions more than words tell you who you are to them. If you do not feel like his actions speak the walk of a boyfriend then I would confront him and ask where he see's your relationship going. Here are some additional questions. Are we an official couple? Or, are we just still in the dating zone?
Tagged: Dating Tipshow can i stop being so clingy with my boyfriend
How to stop being so clingy? Have a life outside of him! Make time for friends. Make time for your own personal growth. You need to remember that being independent is super attractive!
Tagged: Dating Tipsi met a guy last thursday and he asked me on a date for next friday. we talk online and we find it hard to conversation going. Then he sugested we meet up before we go. at 1st he wanted me to go to his house but i didnt have time so i asked him to meet me in town for lunch. then on tuesday something came up he had to mind his neohew. i didn't mind. then yesterday evening he was talking about how he had the flu and how ill he was and wouldnt know if he would be well enough for friday. i didn't say anything but i found it odd. then i decided to say to him that i had other plans i couldnt make it. then he text back i wouldnt be able to make it anyway. Is he making excuses to not see me or is he blowing me off.
The first thing I want to address is how were you feeling during all this? My gut is saying that you knew deep in your spirit that this didn’t feel good! Secondly, I want to address that he asked you to go to his house before ever really going on a date, this is a big NO! Why would he want you to go to his house first? This was confirmed when you asked to reschedule for Tuesday and then something came up, like tending to his nephew. A guy in general would never tend to a nephew over going on a date that was already scheduled if he is genuinely into a girl. Also pay attention to the signs. The conversation was difficult and he bailed out of scheduled dates twice. I would not give this guy another thought!
Tagged: Meet Peopleso im with this guy, but he's two years older than me. We have been together for 3 months.....will it work out?
There are no fortune tellers here. So don't waste your time looking for them.
So far as "will it work out" is concerned, I have this to say:
If you waste all your life worrying about the future, you will have died in the past.
Ride the wave and learn to live like we, humans, are supposed to and let the future worry about itself.
No one was ever successful by worrying. Failures worry, successful people KNOW!
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Tagged: RelationshipsI really love this girl and I've asked her out. the reply she gave me was"I am going out with this guy but of late we are not in talking terms anymore, but i like you and don't want to hurt you but he still claims he likes me so I'm confused". i just can't let her go so what should i do now??????
you should tell her how you feel, she mite not realize how much she really wants you, women need attention, the more u r ther when he is not...will show her and her fiends that you care more!
Tagged: Dating TipsI have this boy at my high school that is so so cute to me. I liked him since the first day of school and I didn't know he had a girlfriend already since last year. On the phone he tells me to behave in school, keep my grades up, and don't be having sex. He tells me to be a good girl and he is like a other brother to me. I had told him that. We sung to each other on the phone the other night and we told each other how much we loved each other and I told him to be honest with me and he was. He told me that he had a dream that we got married. My friends kept telling me that we make a cute couple. He told me in my face that I was very beautiful and that if he was single he would go with me, but his face was as serious as anyone else when he said that. I asked him how much he likes me and he said alot and he also said that he liked his girlfriend a lot too. You see, the thing about them is is that they break up and make up too much. When they're back together they are happy and he even told me that we are gonna go out this year. He wants to go out with me bad cuz we give each other hugs and kisses everyday. He's really sweet and we like each other alot. It is not that easy to break up with his girl to go with me. I already told him I am not ever going to lose my virginity to anybody until I get married. He told me to not make the same mistake he did when he lost his virginity at an early age. We are both Freshman. What should I do? I've been told that I need to wait. He likes me for who I am, and I like him for that too. He will fight and take up for you. I've been told that we should just be friends and just wait for a while. Mostly the whole school knows that they go out so my best friend 4 life told me that we should go together in secret and nobody won't know but me and him and her, but I've been told that's cheating, so I need to wait. People at school now days are messy so we are just keeping everything a secret to ourselves. My best friend told me that we almost have everything in common. What should I do if we want to go with each other but not yet, and he still love his girl and have feelings for her? He has feelings for me too now. I've also heard that he has to make a choice. Am I the right one fro him or his girl? His girl lets other boys touch on her and pick her up sometimes when he's not around and she trys to be innocent sometimes but she still cares for him and he does too. I do also. What's going on?
ok i know that u apparently "love" him. but u have to give him the choice of iether her or u. if he likes u as much as u say he does than he should come to u. the only reason why he shouldn't is if he still likes the other girl and he does than u should wait for him or go for someone else
best of luck
Tagged: Teen Datinghow do u get a girl when everybody thinks you are a drugy?
Identify what in your appearance makes you look like a druggy and change it. If you are a druggy, Stop doing Drugs! Ultimately if you want to get the girl your going to have to make yourself look like a good catch.
If it is a reputation you cant shake, then try a new location for finding girls. Sometimes you just have to change your location to remove what those around you think about you.
it depends on what girls your trying to get.
To be completely honest, girls philosophys on dating are stereotypical. The jocks with preps, the druggys with the druggys. and crossing the social barriers is a hard thing to understand.
Call me stupid but if everyone thinks you're a druggy...Stop doing drugs!Tagged: Dating Tipsthe love of my life is moving and i want to kiss him so he will always remembers me but when ever i am with him he wants me to i want to but my body dosnt let me please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i need goodbye kissing tips!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
then tell him ur not ready but u want to do it but ur body siad ur not right there yet and i guess what u could do is let him kis u on the lips but thats me 1!!...
Tagged: Intimacyme and my boyfriend have a distance relationship an im 14 an he is 17 how can i make our 1st date special
You should pack a picnic lunch in a basket, complete with blanket to sit on and find a great spot for the picnic. You can look in the local paper, you might find different kinds of festivals where to go. You can do something as miniature golf, bowling or an amusement or theme park.
Tagged: Teen Datinghow do i get a guy if he got tricked into dating another girl please please
well you should go to him and ask him if he wants to do something like the movies and all that stuff not those exact words but something like that and also if he got trick then he can get out easy by saying to the other girl that he was tricked but thats his part to play and you would have to rely on him to do that cause its a two way street
Tagged: Dating IssuesIdenitfy Yourself, hello my name is John Costa and im an extremely horny guy. I am interested in women with big build. How do i attract big women? do i buy them food?
I've read your question that you've posted
well i had a smiliar situation about 3 years ago
I think the best place to find women are probably at night clubs
To keep them satisfied you should do what you would normally do to girls that you have been with in the past. Just take it slowly and you'll progress effectively with your relatinship
You shouldn't take a girl out for food untill the 3rd date.They would feel really uncomfortable & won't eat.Just take her to the movies on
the first date & the second go ice-sk8ing......if you don't connect by then & get a hug or kiss then ask what she would want to do,or suprise her & take her shopping.
GOOD LUCK!!Tagged: Seductionhow can i talk to a girl i want on the phone i will go out of questions and then she will act as if she dose'nt want to talk to me but she likes me very much how can i ask her out?
When you call to ask her out be polite and funny. Try to have an idea of what you want to say when she picks up the phone. First, be curious about her, ask questions about herself. Then,
ask her out for a coffee. If she is interested, she will respond in the positive, but also her tone will be positive.
Tagged: Dating Tipswho should make the first move when you want to kiss the guy or the girl?
If the date is going well and you have a lots of eye contact and closeness between the two of you, this is a good sign that the other person would like to be kissed. The best time to kiss is when the two of you are saying good-bye. When you decide to go for the kiss, go for it!
personally the boy should always make the first move even though the boy might be a little scared to because he might think she gone turn him down Tagged: First Datehere goes! ive been seein this guy i met off myspace hes goin thru a divorce an is very interested in me.. we have fun together,im there when he needs me to help with the kids an i enjoy his kids,, ive spent the nite an i slept on sofa out of respect for his kids..he dont know wat he wants but hes made it clear he dont want me datein other guys or even messin with guys.. ive met the family an his best friends please give me advice as to wat should i do i wana see him but he has me confused on wat he wants im goin crazy tryin to figure him out tami
I understand you can be confuse. You said hes going thru a divorce. You have to make sure he will dont take avantage of you. Just make sure he wants you as partner and not babysitter.
You are a replacement, cut and run now while you can.
I've been divorced for about a year now, and it took easily that long to be comfortable with dating again and be ready to be with someone. He is using you as a replacement for his soon to be ex-wife; taking care of the kids, probably cooking, and probably other stuff too. Men do that, that's a bad habit that is fairly common; when men find they are single they don't like the loneliness and they need help with the household and the kids, so they settle for the first person and make her the "new wife". Unfortunately they aren't ready to be in love, to have a great relationship, to have first dates and first kisses and really enjoy learning someone again. He is trying to swap you in and make you someone that you aren't. Don't you want the awesomeness that is courting? Going out for the first times, falling in love? He's using you hon, and it sucks, but you have to realize what's going on.
Walk away now and give him three months. Tell him you will be there three months from now and will date him then, that he needs time to break away and reset. If he truly likes you and wants to be with you he'll wait for you and be there in three months. Chances are (and I hate to say this) he will just find someone else to fill the void, probably the next person that comes along.
I know when I finally met the right person we took it at the right speed and introduced her to my son when it was time and everything is working out awesome now, but there's no way I would have been ready earlier.Tagged: Dating Tipshi kyle i'm internet lover i have seen a beautiful lady in myspace website. i want to message her but i dont know to give her some message like a topic pls. give some advice.
Your email message should be fun, engaging and demonstrate that you've read her profile. Be honest, be yourself. Don't exaggerate or stretch the truth. Once you're suspected of doing so you will lose your credibility.
Tagged: Online DatingIn a long distance relationship, how long is to long to be away from eachother
Being in a long distance relationship isn't easy. You should communicate daily, and see each other at least once per month in person. Planning reunions play a big part in keeping your relationship exciting. If you and your partner want the relationship work, then you will see each other as often as you can.
its not really easy to be in a long distance relationship but one thing is sure;communication is very essential. you should talk to each other at least once a day and meet at least once in a month.that would keep the relationship going.Tagged: Long Distance RelationshipsLets say your in a long distance relationship but the person your having the relationship with isn't allowed to see you. Would it be bad to go behind your parents backs and see them anyways?
I dont think you should surprise him. Plan a reunion with him for next week end. Having a weekend together can help recharge the relationship and reinforce your commitment. If isnt available to see you again, you should ask your partner when he plan to see you and check how is reaction. I think you should be honest with your partner about your expectations and feelings.
i know its quite tempting to go see ur bf/gf behind ur parents backs but am sure its not for the best. it could actually cause you a whole lot of trouble than u expected. i guess its better to talk it over with ur parents and see if u could work out something with them, maybe u can then be allowed to go see ur bf/gf on certain days of the week and at certain hours without u being scared of ur parents finding out.
If you are realing in love with him let your parents know you love him and they can't stop your love Tagged: Long Distance RelationshipsWhat would be a good first date. Dinner at a small inexpensive resteraunt (not fast food) and a movie or a 3 hour dinner at a nicer resto?
Do something you both like.
Your first date doesn't need to be something extravagant or pricey, but rather should allow the two of you to get to know each other. It is best to stick with a place that is quiet and casual, so that conversation can be heard.
I think a first date should be more interesting that a dinner date take her some where fun but also somewhere you can talk. show her that you know how to have fun so that way if you go out to a restuant and it's a little dull she will still know that you know how to have fun. Even just going out for drinks wouldn't be a bad first date. And what ever you do keep her interested if you see the conversation dieing out make her laugh. That is always a good way to make them want you. every one loves to laugh.
I don't see what's wrong with throwing ideas at her, to see which one she best responds to. Or asking what do you like to do. I think what is most important on the first date is to make sure that a guy 1) respects you 2)Is interested in learning about you 3)establishing a certain comfort level ...because if you can't do that, then you can't go any further. It isn't really about where, what, or how much because that looks suspicious.
that would be a perfect dateTagged: First Date
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