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i have been dating my best friend for a month now. we are really close as friends and i like him a lot. he says he likes me a lot but wants to take things slow before getting into a relationship completely. however, we are "friends with benefits". ive known him for about 5 months now and we tell each other everything. what do i do? how do i get him to ask me out? Tagged: Relationships

I am a 20 year old undergraduate and I'm taking a seminar with this WICKED CUTE German exchange student. I'm one of the only people he talks to, I don't know if he is shy or if he just finds me more receptive than others. The problem? I have a major crush on him.

So yesterday in class I was writing a discussion question on the board and he comes up besides me, REALLY close to me, and asks for help coming up for a question. He was literally close enough that he could just lean down from his 6' something stature and kiss me (wish he would lmao). I beckoned him to whisper something and he came even closer. I was bright red for the rest of class!

Then, at the end of the seminar, he started asking me about assignments and we got to talking about classes and such. When I told him what days I didn't have class, he kept repeating the days over and over and he said "you have EVERY monday, wed, etc. off of school?" He was leaving, and I had to hand something in on the other side of the room. When I went to the door he was WAITING FOR ME (pretty unmistakably) and we walked out together and down the hall for a few minutes, talking about Germany and how I'm (hopefully) studying there next semester...in what just so happens to be HIS university in HIS town! He smiles at me a lot and is easy to talk to, not to mention very very smart.

I'm just wondering whether I should even bothering pursuing him. If this somehow turned into something (and believe me, I'm scoffing at myself), I will probably be over THERE for at least a few months so I'm not too worried about time limits. I am trying not to get my hopes up because he is most likely just being friendly and trying to make the best of being in (cold) New England for a while. He is kind of an Adonis (IMHO) and I am not ugly, but am kind of plain looking and overweight.
Does it sound like a remote possibility? What should I do?Tagged: Flirting

Hey DD! I have been seeing this one guy for just over a year now. We started our relationship off just casual, more 'friends with benefits'. Our reasoning was that we both lived in a tiny tourist/ski bum town and neither of us knew when we were going to leave, so we wanted to keep emotions aside. Needless to say that was a stupid idea and my feelings for him definitely grew. We became exclusive, though we never discussed it. I let the "L word" slip once, and then said it maybe 2 more times, but never had it returned. I know he cares about me because he tells me he does.
I recently moved to a new city for school and we never discussed how the relationship would work during this, but I know he has plans to move here soon and we will probably pick right up where we left off. We talk to eachother often and he even calls.My question, I guess is how so I know if he loves me or wants the relationship to progress? Am I stupid to have fallen so hard when it was just supposed to be friendly? And maybe, how can I get him to fall in love?Tagged: Relationships

I have a date planned with a guy I went to high school with. Going on 9 years ago. We have had a sort of flirting relationship for many months now when we've periodically run into each other. Sometimes we've planned to meet up as well. He's said through e-mail that he likes me but I can tell he's very shy with dating. I have a small issue with our past I suppose; he was a very popular guy in school and I preferred to be someone in the middle(who got along with everyone not just the popular crowd) We have some of the same friends still but many are different. I just wonder if this is something that should be pursued or if I should stay away. Do you think our previous social status will be an obstacle? I do think that we both want to be with one another but I don't know how to mesh the gap I suppose.Tagged: Relationships

I was married to my wife for twenty-two years, when we finally divorced. I was working sixty to eighty hours a week and didn't pay as much attention to her as I could have. She ended up having an affair and I ended up becoming an alcoholic. I have been sober for ten years. We have been divorced for ten years, I hang out at my ex's house and watch movies with her and my son. I have helped her paint a room and we enjoy each others company. She has mentioned to my son that I am "like the man she met originally." I still have feelings for her, and have asked her out on a date. She responded that she "needed to think about it." She then made a comment about that being a little weird. We have both grown and it seems grown in the same direction. We enjoy each others company. I guess my real question at this point is: How long should I wait for an answer without looking like I am being pushy? Tagged: Breakups

My boyfriend cheated on me, after a couple months I got over it and we're now back together. However I do not feel the same way about him now and I still think about when he cheated on me. I don't know if I should remain dating him or not?Tagged: Dating Issues

Hi, I met this guy on an online dating site. We hit it off very well and there was a lot of emailing and texting back and forth. After about 2 weeks we decided to meet for coffee. I was rather nervous and let the guy do most of the talking, just listening to him and asking some innocuous questions. From ny perspective the meeting was not that geat and I was not any outcome from it. But, to my suprise, within an hour, he texted me to say he had enjoyed the meeting and could we have another meeting. Well, we fixed to meet for lunch a week later. in the meantime there was a lot of texting etc. Lunch was ok, I was not so nervous...the meeting wasnt wildly exciting tho. Again I half expected not to hear from him again. But he did and when I suggested a movie sometime in the future, he was quite eager. I am not sure .... he is a nice guy and I feel that something could develop between us in the long term. What I want to know is, do you think he likes me and is attracted to me?Tagged: Dating Tips

How much space should I give this girl I like? What am I doing wrong?
We've been talking for about a month. We've gone on a couple dates and we have great chemistry in person but she seems really distant via text or when I talk to her and won't get back to me when I leave a message on her phone. Her ex bf and her broke up about a month ago and I'm trying to give her space but I really like her to. I treat her with respect and I respect her boundaries. I treat her like a princess on dates and in person.

We've kissed a few times but she doesn't seem like she wants to hang out with me outside of seeing her in person. I got her a little something for her birthday a couple weeks ago. It was a little plush animal(her favorite animal) and a cd she really likes but didn't have. I just hate that I'm giving so much into this and trying to make this a relationship and it doesn't seem like she is giving me the same.Tagged: Dating Tips

What must i do or say to my girl friend when she tald me that she is inlove with some one elseTagged: Dating Issues

This guy and I have been friends for a few months. We really hit it off, and many people have noticed. One of our mutual friends noticed the chemistry between us right away, even before I realized I had feelings for this guy. I only get to see him on weekends, when he works as a bartender. He is a super nice guy, I have nothing bad to say about him. Many people have asked me if we are dating, and when hearing that we arent, say that we should be.
He has that lingering look at me, he is always very excited to see me. He tells me I look cute, that he would love to take me on a date sometime. He’s kissed me a few times, gives me the longest and biggest hugs ever that make me feel so special. He tells me im the sweetest girl hes ever met, and nicest person hes met. The other day he introduced me to his guy friends.He tells me i smell good, and never ever lets me pay for my drinks at the bar. ever.
we dont text much, if we do, its just to say have a good day or to make sure the other is okay.
One of my friends told me he really does like me, but doesnt think anything would ever happen because “im too good for him”. honestly, i think i should be the one to decide that. I really like this guy. ive never felt what I feel for this guy. He is the gentleman ive been waiting for…and I want to get to know him, and see if it turns into a relationship.
we havent had a chance to really “talk” because he does get busy at the bar. I want to just ask him to go for a walk with me, or go hike or do something fun, no pressures, not romantic, but im so scared. Does he like me? Am i out of my league? Will I bug him? HOW do i Ask????
Help!Tagged: Dating Tips

I'm just looking for some general advice. I was in an 6yr relationship since that has come to an end I think I took plenty of time for myself. I have started dating a couple months back meet a couple wonderful guys but this 1 in particular has caught my attention. 1st we meet on a dating site have been talking sine march gone on 1 date 2 weeks ago. The day after he text me and said he had a great time since we text every couple days and he does want to hang out again and so far we have plans for a week from sat. See we live about an hour and a half away so can't really get together any other time then Saturday because of work and I have a young daughter. He says nice things but I'm sure all guys can do that. He doesn't seem to talk a lot but he did also tell me on the 1st date he could go his entire shift without talking came up because he's a cop and I asked if he prefers to have someone with him so I think he's more or so on the quiet side but when he wants to talk he does. Not sure? I don't want to push him away by over texting and I'm deff. Not needie so its ok for me but I just wonder if that means he's not as interested as he said? I also wonder because we r just talking and going on a 2nd date but how long is it ok to continue to be on a dating site if u r seeing someone and interested in them? Also how many dates should u have before u should talk about commitment just in general not neccessarily refering to this situation or a certain time frame? I would really appreciate some basic info because its been so long since I've been in any of these situations... thanks again in advance!!! Tagged: Dating Tips

Is it wrong to like your friends ex-husband? Also, how do I let a guy know that I like him without scaring him away?Tagged: Dating Tips

i just met a girl through a dating agency. we met once so far and meeting again soon as she lives in london i live in Milton keynes..Since our first meeting it has been mainly been me texting her. she responds to my texts and when i suggest to meet she is up for that..but i get the feeling she is not into me that much. when we first met, after four days later i texted her to meet up again which she agreed to, but since then she has not texted me to say hi or anything.i would of thought if she liked me, she would of texted me to meet again? thats why i left it for four days before i texted her. shall i just not bother and see it as a lost cause. i may have blown my chances if im seen to keen or desperate texting her every now and then.Tagged: Dating Issues

I asked a close friend out a few hours ago over facebook as we can not meet face to face. She has been on multiple times but still no answer, How long should I wait. Should I send a follow up message just in case she didn't see the first one?Tagged: Teen Dating

Hi DD! I'm 18 and so is my boyfriend we are 18 days apart but we have been dating for 6 months and a 2 days, what stage would we be in? What should we do? Please help me! I want to make this relationship work... Ali!Tagged: Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been doing sexual stuff for a while but now she says it's nasty and doesn't want to do it anymore what's this mean?Tagged: Breakups

I never had a relationship before and I went on a dating site and found someone who kind of took an interest in me. He asked me to post a photo and then we talked online about 10 times. I want him to write to me more often but he doesn't. It seems like I am always writing and I don't want to be a bother to him. One time we talked he said I was a nice lady. Other times when I said to him if he wanted to talk online he turned me down. He said maybe later. I am 45 years old and I want a relationship to lead to marriage yet I don't know how I am going to find anyone. Most of the guys i see are not attractive to me. I don't know how to date and I am afraid to go on a date for the fact that I might get caught up in sex. How can I learn to date at this age? It seems hopeless that I ever will be married.Tagged: Relationships

Should men pay on the first date?Tagged: First Date

Am proposing a girl bt she always said she dnt knw me.mainwhy she gave me her nos herself.nd av tried my best in textin her in no times.so kindly lead me thruTagged: Dating Tips

this girl in my class gave me here number how long should i wait to call herTagged: Breakups

Hi,DD, I met a guy online, we had really good conversations for about a week, he did say he would like to meet in person, at that time, I hesitated, because I really like him, even it is just based on what I know about him online.... then one day, after a long exchanging email about what we did the night before, i asked 'like to see you in person, what do you think', but i didn't hear from him....what went wrong? Tagged: Online Dating

I have been going out with a girl since last 4 months knowing that she is committed to a guy since last two years who lives outside and meets ones or twice in a year. I got some feelings for her and told her. She says she is fine with it but she can't leave that guy. If I avoid her for my own good she keeps on asking me what happened to you. She is not ready to leave that guy and again she also don't want to loose my friendship. what should I do?Tagged: Breakups

Hello Dawn,

THANK YOU XXXXX

Your advice is very appreciated, things are heating up way to quickly with me and this guy, so I think I will try to cool things down a little :-)

Thank you VERY MUCH for your reply.

from (29 yr old with 3 yrs old child)Tagged: Dating Tips

There is this boy who really likes me. He is in class and whenever me and my friends are like mucking around, he would get scissors and cuts himself to write my name. He is going to ask me out. What should I say? I don't want to break his heart.Tagged: Dating Issues

Hello,
I went out with a British girl i met about a month ago and the date was going really well the conversation was interesting, laughter and good chemistry with good kino the whole time at the bar. Then suddenly out of nowhere she tells me that she has a boyfriend but would love to be friends with me. I replied honestly saying that i like her and i don't think i can be friends with her. She said that she really respected my honesty and suggested the friendship again i said NO. A month passed and i receive an sms from her saying that she wants to see me and we should go out for drinks. Not wanting to sound desperate i set a date the next night. After calling her to plan where we are going to meet she doesnt answer and then sends a message saying that she cant meet me tonight something came up!! BS and that she wants us to meet next week if possible?!?!?
I really don't understand what's happening here if you could give me your opinion i would be very grateful. Thank YouTagged: Dating Issues

Hello,

I am 29yrs old with a 3 year old child. I have recently started speaking to a guy and been on 2 dates with him, he seems very interested in me. He is very sweet, he realised I wasn't ready to kiss him and so has not tried to kiss me as yet.

My problem is we've only been on 2 dates and I can't stop thinking about him,I feel sick in my stomach and can't concentrate on anything! I've only felt like this once and that was when i was 18 yrs old!
We can talk for hours, make each other laugh, and we share the same views on a lot of things and if I had a list of all the things I wanted in a guy he would match everything on it. I am normally a leveled headed person, but I think I have fallen for him already. I can't relax properly around him. He try's to show me affection by holding my hand, touching my arm and leaning in when he's speaking to me but I just freeze up, I am nervous around him ( but act cool) because i'm scared things are moving too fast for both of us. Can two people really fall for each other that quickly? and what should I do? cause I feel like running like the wind, I don't think I can trust my self around him anymore.

Thank youTagged: Dating Tips

I went out with a woman three times before she gave me the "just friends" spill. However, she continues to IM and e-mail me (The message are ALWAYS disengaging like "How are you?" and "Enjoy your day") When I try to engage her she either doesn't respond or doesn't engage.

Since I will never see her as just a friend, I deleted her from my IM and am VERY slow to return her e-mails.
Now she texts me instead!

I don't get it. Can you shed light?Tagged: Dating Tips

I have a boyfriend who is 5 years older than me and sometimes I think he doesn't wanna get too intimate with me because maybe I'm young, but I want him so bad.Tagged: Intimacy

I am heartbroken because the girl I am insanely in love with does not like me back. I am trying to be a non-trouble maker because that's what she likes in a guy, but whenever I try not to get in trouble, MY FRIEND GETS ME IN TROUBLE. Help me how to get her to like me. I think she hates me.Tagged: Relationships

I met a guy online and we went for drinks and really hit it off. He asked me for a second date that same week and I went to his place to hang out, we had a jacuzzi and sauna, things got pretty heated and when we got back to his appartment, we had sex, it was nice, but I think it was too soon and I told him this. I really want to get to know him better but I am afraid that he just wants one thing.
We went out for dinner after all this happened and he was really sweet the whole time. When he dropped me home, he didn't say when he would call me or even if he wanted to see me again.
I know it was a mistake going to bed with him. How can I make things better? Tagged: Dating Tips

How long to wait to call after first dateTagged: Breakups

Hi I enjoy your column and find it very useful. So I gotta question. Sorry if it's long but will try and shorten it. Awhile back a mutual introduces us but she was involved so I moved on. About 6 months later she friends me so we start talking and just had our first date. It went great talked for 3 hours about everything except personal stuff. So I send a few texts like good morning, or have a good day. She replies thanks you to. I have asked her for another date but our sch. conflicts. So we just text. I have a feeling that she is responding because shes a nice person. Anyway, if if I get a 2nd date my question is. Is it O.K. if I ask where she sees this, or what is she looking for, think theres potential or just talk normal and wait to see how it goes and save for the third. Thank-You Tagged: Dating Tips

So I'm 16, in 10th grade in high school and I'm dating this girl who lives down the street from me who is 14 and in 8th grade. She is really pretty, a cheerleader, and very popular. Her sister on the other hand is 15 and in the same grade as me. She has next to no friends and is rather ugly. She is in shape, but just ugly all around. I recently moved to this town from another state and I already have more friends then she does and I've been here for a few months. Anyways I think her sister is jealous of her because she won't leave me alone and when ever my girl friend does something she should, her sister tells on her as fast as she can.Tagged: Dating Issues

Hello there! I would like to know based on your dating experience what does the following sign means? I was seeing this older woman. She is older by 5 years. We went out twice and whenever we were having a conversation in the restaurant she would constantly tap into my shoe; like she was trying to play footsie. But of course I didn't want to get the wrong idea. Typically what does this mean?Tagged: Seduction

A girl gave me a letter saying that she can't understand what i am signaling her. She also said that she will meet me after 25th of this month. She is interested in me or not?Tagged: Teen Dating

I hangout with this girl every second at school like in 3 classes and at lunch. She has friends, but she doesn't hangout with them much, just me. Then, this guy got jealous and told her to stop hanging with me, but she said I was nice. What does she think about me other then being nice and is there a chance I can become more then friends and maybe date? Tagged: Relationships

I planned to visit my girlfriend at college,when I got there she wanted us to go out for a date and at that time I wasn't prepare,she got mad at me and walked away..I tried to ask for an apology she refusef..what should I do so that she can forgive me?Tagged: Dating Issues

Hi Dawn
i've got this girl in my class and i've known her for about 2 months now i really like her but i'm not sure what to say to express my feelings to her i'm not sure she if likes me in d same way and it makes me fell really nervous to tell her how i feel plz helpTagged: Dating Tips

ive been seein my ex but he treats me badly, doesnt contact me for weeks, then calls, says sorry n that wants t make it up, we sleep together, spend day or 2 together then same thing happens again. he says sorry yet never shows it, never does anything to make up for all th hurt and gets angry and cant see y i get upset. ive endid it this time and he jus let me go, saying he doesnt blame me, and that he wasnt using me for sex as he never planed to sleep with me, only did cos i came onto him
doea that mean he didnt want me?
no desiire?
did he ever care?
Tagged: Relationships

I hangout with this girl every second at school like in 3 classes and at lunch and she has friends, she doesnt hangout with them much just me and this guy got jealous and told her to stop hanging with me and she said I was nice, what does she think about me other then being nice and is there a chance I can become more then friends and maybe date? Tagged: Relationships

Hi DD,
First off I want to apologize for the length of my question or shall I say confusion in regards to a girl that I've been dating for a couple of weeks now.
Here is the my confusion....I'm 33yrs old and have dated my fair share of women but she is different then any others that I've been around. We've spent a lot of time with one another and we always have fun! But...I'm confused because she can be very hot/cold at times. One minute we can be out and I will get the small gestures, holding my arm, resting her head on my shoulder but then at other times it's the complete opposite. A prime example would be one night we were out and I went to give her a kiss and she pulled away and said thats not going to happen unless you put a ring on my finger, but then 45min later I went to kiss her again and she didn't pull away? Now I don't know if she is just playing hard to get or is just "messing with me" ?
But my other part is that in the couple of weeks that we've been dating we have spent several nights at one anothers houses and have yet to have sex with one another. The other day she actually brought it up and asked me why I havent' tried to yet and stated in her words "I think he likes me ". I told her that for once I didnt' want to just jump head first in getting to know one another more and that I do have a interest but that I don't want to give her the impression that all I'm interested in is sex. So, the following night I tried to "make my move " but in doing so she said not now and that I missed the boat. Then the following moring when we both were getting ready after she took her shower she came into the room I commented on her just wearing a towel and she stated "well if we had sex already I would walk around naked, followed by now its going to be your turn to wait " .
That sameday, which was today we spent part of the day together and when I dropped her off home it was as if nothing happened and kissed one another goodbye and we have plans for V-Day.
I guess you can say that I'm just confused for the first time with dating someone new and arent' used to spending time with someone that is so hot/cold. Is she playing hard to get or is this just a game she is playing to test me in how I would react? I'm just looking for a little advice because I enjoy spending time with this women and can tell that she does also.
My apologies for the length of my question.Tagged: Dating Issues

Hi! So I was dating a really good guy, but he had been in a relationship before me and was engaged at one point to his ex. She left him, I asked him out, and we began dating. The ex came back and started telling him she would kill herself if she couldn't have him. I tried to stand by him and helped him, but she ended up leaving him 4 months later. Then a month later, he broke up with me to be with someone else he found more interesting. I was hurt and still hurting about it. I backed off to give both him and myself space. He comes around whenever someone else seems to hurt me and says he still cares. It's been about a little more than a month since the break up and he said he was sorry but didn't give me the reason why he was sorry. I broke down after and went to the girl friends to help me feel better. I just don't know what to do at this point. Yes I still love him, but I'm trying to move on, because it seem like he sure did. Help?Tagged: Teen Dating

i have difficulty in approaching a lady, i dont know whether its lack in confidence. Need adviseTagged: Breakups

Hi Dawn,
I recently met a high school friend for her birthday party and informed me that she has a 2 year old. She also wanted to know if I would be interested in dating. She came onto me and I stayed at her place. It just seems know that I always have to be the one to text or talk with her. Is that a bad sign?Tagged: Dating Tips

What is the best way to approach hot girls?Tagged: Dating Issues

Last semester I met this guy in my class. I am very reserved and he is outgoing. We slowly became friends and he even started flirting a bit with me adn acting like he liked me before christmas break. Now we are back to school, he is in my class again, and he is acting like he barely remembers my name. Why? I thought he liked me, but now I am so confused. What should I do, if anything?Tagged: Relationships

Hi DD. I am very shy and want to get this guy's attention without being too flirty. How should I do that?Tagged: Flirting

My friend (seriously, it wasn't me) just went through a bad breakup. The guy was a complete jerk to her. she is looking to me for advise, but I don't know what to tell her, I have never been in this situation myself. Please help me! Here is basically what happened without giving personal details-
they met at work,became good friends, started dating, realized that wasn't working, then broke-up, but decided to stay friends. Now the guy has turned around and is dating all these other girls, treating them like prizes and completely ignoring my friend. She wants her old friend back, but I don't think that is possible. she is somewhere between still loving him and hating his guts. this is affecting her life in so many ways. I am thinking she should get out. Just take a month off and travel to Maine or something. Is that wise, or just running away from her problems? She and I both know she needs to just forget this guy, but she doesn't seem to be able to. Plus, they all have the same friends and work in the same place. It seems like a lost cause and I have no idea what to tell her.Tagged: Breakups

I've been going out with one girl.I want to purpose to her, But I am afraid that she might say me no!What I can do? Tagged: Breakups

I met a girl in November. I gave her y number and she called within a few days. Since then we have gone on a few dates, the first was a drink date that lasted 4 hrs and only ended cause the bar closed. The second was dinner and we closed out the restaurant and then the bar. As we continued to date she started putting up an emotional wall. I told her I like her and she says she likes me back. Her best friend confirms it too. I was out of town for a few weeks and we texted a couple times, she didn't respond to every attempt to initiate conversation, maybe every other one. Last time we texted was New Years night. I flew back in on 1/3 and left her a message asking when if she knew when she was going to be home and if she wanted to get dinner when she got back into town (she's out of town). It's been almost a week and she still hasn't responded. What should I do?Tagged: Dating Tips

Hi Dawn
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now.
After first month, I started to ask whether can I hold her hand, she say no and from there I started to declare my love to her. She says she is not rejecting me during the heart to heart talk session. Currently she is single and there is another guy wooing her too. She says she is also confused to choose between the 2 guys.
So far she did ask me out once during Christmas eve. Does this show she is interested?
Sometime she also asks me why I want to give up on her, or like we are still friends and we do not know the future. I just feel she is contradicting and not ready to commit in a relationship. She say currently I am in the better stand but I told her that is blank talk and result still matters.
After the first declaration we still went out together. Recently we went flying kite and she say she was feeling cold and indeed the wind was strong. Is this a hint for me to hold her hand?
I was thinking of asking her after the festive season like Chinese new year, popping up the question like whether she has decided or try and test to hold her hand.
Please advise. Thanks.
Tagged: Dating Tips

so this guy asked me for a date. Ive known him for a year or something and i can tell he is usually very flirty with many girls. The date went really good he take me to dinner and after we went for drinks at a bar. He showed interest, he came with excuses to touch my arm, etc. after some time we start kissing then he took me home. later that night i receive a text from him telling me that he had a good time. i answered him and i havent heard from him in about 2weeks. Do u think he was interested o he was tht flirty with me as to any other girl? should i call him or just forget about it?Tagged: First Date

Hi, I need some advice about a guy that I like but I just can't understand him: He knew that I liked him because I wasn't very good at hiding it at the time. One evening after a party, he got the confirmation of what he already knew and how does he react? He goes and finds this girl which we both have as a friend in common. (She also knew that I liked him.) So, he's sitting beside her in the reception room and the minute I walk into the room he starts to lean against her and cuddle with her and once he got my full attention, he says "I love you" loud enough for everyone to hear. I'm so shocked and hurt that I run out of the room, not even caring that both their eyes are staring straight at me. (They looked a little surprised at my reaction.) Took me about 15 minutes to calm down and summon up enough courage to go back, just to make sure. And he does it again! A second time. So my question is: What was he trying to do? Was he trying to repel me and transmit this message or was he trying to provoke me into standing up to him? ThanksTagged: Dating Issues

how long till you can kiss in a relashoinshipTagged: Dating Tips

Ok,my older sister's friend has come around with her alot and we've had moments where she gets mad at me because I haven't said hi to her when i see her or how she just hasn't seen me.So recently before the new year started over christmas break our family had little gatherings and at multiple gatherings this girl has talked to my father telling him that I'm a nice guy and that I haven't approached her.The same day she had this conversation with my father me and her had a friendly conversation about relationships and life overall.The very next day my sister comes back and tells me that she says in a playful but real way that she likes me.SO on new year's eve I approached her and told her that I am interested in her and she asked me why didn't I tell her. I simply replied saying that she probably wouldn't take me seriously.so as the night went on we laughed and danced with each other all night. I got her telephone number and we talked about getting together and she said she hears what I'm saying and she said it takes time. Now she's told me her experience with relationships where she always felt that she played the male role in the relationship. My question widdles down to this how should I take it slow with her because she says it's going to take time so I don't wan to rush anything . So how do I go about taking it slow with her.Tagged: Relationships

I met this at a wedding.she kind of avoided me but the only time we could talk was in the company of my friends.i liked the girl but she could avoid 1 on 1 talks.now we are living in faraway towns.i have her phone# and ive called her twice.Now how can i express my feelings to her when she is that far?and i dont know if shell like meTagged: First Date

Hi. This guy I like the other day was texting me and I told him I had just got of the phone with the school perve. Well, he reacted by tellng me how much he hates him so much. Well, I said that I only did because I was bored and he wanted advice. Then the guy, Stephen, texted me back and said that I dont ever have to text him again. That if I was bored that I could talk to him any time I wanted and that he would always be there for me. Then he put a smiley face like this: :)
I think he likes me alot, but im not sure. Is that flirting? Does he like me?Tagged: Flirting

i just got here in america for a new life leaving my past behind, i started talking to this american guy online but i don't know how to deal or even date foreigners and i dont want to be left being used..can you give me tips on how to date american guys, do's and dont's and how can u really tell if he's serious with you not only for the sex but in a real relationship?Tagged: Online Dating

i like a girl i was embarassed if i told her how i feel to her face, so i wrote a letter to her and she said her sister cried but she won't tell me how she reacted can you tell me some ways how to tell what her reaction was.Tagged: Dating Tips

i fell in love with this guy some years ago he never really cared about me but he claim to be in love with me. i cheated on him and we broke up.to be honest with you i still love him so very much.i have not been able to love anyone else for two years now.how do i get him back? please help meTagged: Breakups

Ive known this girl for a while now. we try and get together once a week or every other, somthing like that. Shes turning 21 in a week. And im 18, turning 19 in july. Im not sure about the age differance, is it a bad thing? I really feel a connection between us, just the fact that shes 21 sticks in my mind for some reason. I think thats half the reason im having trouble making a move on her, any help on that too would be nice. I know that she has told her friends (who mostly are <20yrs) not sure if that a good thing. Tagged: Dating Issues

How do i make him to love me so muchTagged: Breakups

i have been talking to a girl for a week and we have been flirting she told me out of the blue. that she has no plans this weekend and she thinking of staying in and cuddling and watch movies on the couch by herself then she did the WINK ;) smile after that. but she winks all the time in the e-mails is she hinting at me to ask to she if wants me to hang out with her and watch a movie. Tagged: Online Dating

How can you tell if a guy likes you? What are some of the signs to look for?Tagged: Flirting

Well, I like this guy at my school and I don't know if he likes me back, I think that he flirts with me but I can't tell. I really like him and would like to be his girlfriend but I have no idea what to do. Should I tell him that I like him? Should I just flirt with him? If I should flirt, how? Please help, and FAST!!!!Tagged: Flirting

I fell in luv with this guy but after having sex with him i don't feel anything for him anymore he loves me so much how do i tell him without hurting him.Tagged: Breakups

What is a man's reaction when he is in love with youTagged: Dating Tips

my dating partner told me that this relationship can't go any further because i am not doing the necessary things. So what are the necessary things to do when dating a girlTagged: First Date

I wanted to get to know this girl better and we've been talking about hanging out one night. (we're in college) so one day I texted her and asked her what she was doing later and she says nothing and asks me what I'm doing. I told her I wanted to hang out and that I would text her later. then later I texted her and she said she was eating dinner. I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said she did, and that she would text me after dinner. then she never texted me...

so right away I took that as a sign that she was not interested. then after 3 days of no contact she texts me and asks me why I wasn't in a class that I skipped.

and at this point.. she's just acting like it never happened.

does this mean shes not inerested?
ps. don't say 'she forgot' I know that's bs.Tagged: First Date

Should I ask out a girl my friend likes?Tagged: Rebound Relationships

what conversations are interesting on first dates
Tagged: Breakups

my so call friend heard me say "i do not want to go out with stephanie any more"and now a roomer has been passing on that i will breakup with her and im starting to think i should because i likee this other girl to i need help?Tagged: Breakups

How do u know when it is true?Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

I like this guy we have went on three dates and he is still interested in taking me on more and hanging out. I really like him so far but I have a problem. I have herpes and I when it comes to that time I will be honest but I am afraid that when I do have to tell him he is going to run. Is there anything I can do to help him not to judge me and leave me?Tagged: Sexuality

me and my girlfriend have only be seing eachother in school should i just end it Tagged: Dating Issues

i saw my girl friend kissing another guy and i started crying she ran when she saw me so did the other boy but i chased the boy and puched him several times but she said he made me kiss him and i said yeah right how can i getover itTagged: Cheating

A guy used a pick up line on me and at the end i got his phone number first. rule of thumb what is timeframe of waiting to first call a guy 3 days or a week ? i dont want to be eager beaver but i dont want him to think im not interested either. thank you.Tagged: Dating Tips

I express my emotional feeling toward a girl I love so much but she keep saying no. for the past three years. What do I do.Tagged: Breakups

Were should I take her????..... Am in 9th grade and I usally don't choose the right places for first datesTagged: First Date

i just want to know if a long relationship will work out.my boyfriend and i have dated for a while before he travelled and he is going to be gone for three years.we still call,chat,send pictures and everything is ok just that we miss being around eachother.we both love ourselves so much and we trust eachother.will it work out?he has been gone for 6months and we have been dating for 2years.Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

This girl, i luv her too much n am sure she luvs me too. Living with her parents makes it difficult 4 her 2 make sound decisions. Am in limbo n i dont want to lose her. Now what shud i do 2 survive any heart feelings?Tagged: Relationships

I met someone earlier this week and the two of us hit it off. We had a great conversation over some drinks, and exchanged numbers as I thought the night was over for me. I ended up hanging out with her and her friends a while more that night, and the two of us ended up at staying the night at someone's house. She mentioned earlier in the night that I wasn't like most guys, but made the move to start having sex. I stopped the situation and suggested that it wait for another time, then we fell asleep. I'm really interested in her, but concerned that I may have upset her or something else. I hope to take her out this weekend and alleviate my concerns when I see her again. Any advice?Tagged: Dating Tips

Am currently seeing this wonderful guy. i have this history of short term relationships characterized with me not being open and failing the guys since i dont express my self fully. My new boyfriend understands that and is now asking me to show him in my own way that i really like him. I really wanna do that but am lost for what to do to prove that. Please help suggest me some ways of expressing myself.Tagged: Relationships

how would you know your guy or man is cheatingTagged: Cheating

what is considered first, second and third base in a dating scenario?Tagged: Breakups

I've been hanging out with this girl for just over a week. We do get on well but I am really unsure of what she wants. I feel it's too early to ask the question of where she wants the relationship to go and at the moment I am letting her take the lead which I think is acceptable as I don't want to put pressure on her by going too quick. It just seems right now that she is content with just hanging out and leaving it at that. I am happy with that to a certain extent but the last few dates I feel she's lost interest and I am getting slightly suspicious that I am being taken for a ride. The last date for example she said "feel free to leave" in this bar because I did mention before that clubbing wasn't really my scene and she mentioned she felt guilty about dragging me there. It may have been done totally out of compassion but I do think it's a bit odd to say that if she was truely interested. The next day I purposely didn't text or speak to her for a whole day just to "test"if she was going to get in contact and she didn't. I am still open minded about this because she did make an effort to get to know me when we first met, it was her idea to go to the cinema etc so it hasn't been all one way traffic. I am just not sure of what she wants, but I am terrified to ask or more to the point how to ask. Tagged: Dating Issues

What do you do if you cant get over ur exTagged: Breakups

what do i need 2 tell her on our first date Tagged: First Date

i love this girl crazy love!! but she does not lke me bac and my friend text's her untill midnight help :(Tagged: Flirting

How do I get a man's attention?Tagged: Flirting

What do you say to a girl that your step sister is trying to hook you up with, and that girl is a nabor of your step sisters friend and the only way you can talk to her is through facebook... And you want to ask her to homecomeing... Tagged: Flirting

this girl goes out with 1 of my friends, but i like her too, what shou ld i do?Tagged: Jealousy

Ok I am 55, of course everyone tells me I look more like 42. I meant a man online, he is 50. We have been seeing each other for about 2.5 years. I told him I don't want to get married for about 5 years and I own a house and he doesn't and I don't want to live together yet. As long as I have known him he has moved 5 times and each time it is with different couples in thier basement , rents. My question is, this last couple he has moved in with, Well I talked to the lady that lives there for the first time on the phone ( he has lived there for 6 months) she said he has only mentioned me twice but he goes visits his Mom and Dad almost every weekend and always brings home for them baked goods or left overs. Well DD I am the one he is spending the weekends with I am the one making all this food and sending off with him, she is 41 she said she doesn't know why he would lie about this. This bothers me what why do you think he would lie about this? I think maybe he has a crush on her? Or maybe she is not married and maybe they are doing something behind my back.Tagged: Cheating

I cant move on from a relationship i have been on dates and had a relationship but i always end it because i still love my ex and id rather be alone than with the wrong person Tagged: Breakups

if a girl writes you a note that say's if you like me check yes if not check no if you like me i will promise a kiss i do not know if i'm ready for the kiss not my first kiss thoughTagged: First Date

Hello DD, i'm going on my first date with this guy i've been talking to for about a month. We've hung out but found out that we didn't have that much to say. We talk more when we are texting each other. How can I increase our talking face to on our first date so it won't be awkward for either one of us if we can't find much to talk about?Tagged: First Date

will i meet someone nice soonTagged: Relationships

Been talking to this girl for a while. Works at the same place I do. Known her for a little under a year. I want to ask her out but im just a bit held off on the fact that she is 20, turning 21 in december, and I am 18, turning 19 in july. We have hung out quite a few times and we both know allot about eachother so its not like we are strangers to eachother.Tagged: Dating Tips

She's 22 and I'm 20. We have gone on two "dates" and they have gone well. Ive known her for about 4 months through a mutual friend but only this last month talking to her in a more than friend way. I cannot quite tell if she is fully interested because sometimes I'll text her and I wont get a text back. I am going to ask her out again next week and do the whole pumpkin patch with my roommates and their girlfriends. When we get done and I'm taking her back to her apartment door(which happens to be 25 feet from my door), I wanna tell her how much I'm in to her w/o getting too mushy or not getting the point across about how interested I am in her. Also I'd like to get a kiss of some sort to get the sparks flying and to help progress the relationship or I'm afraid she will get bored and move on. How should I tell her how interested I am? And how can I get the kiss?Tagged: Dating Issues

will i meet someone special soonTagged: Relationships

i really like this girl and i make her laugh but she doesn't like me how can i get her to like meTagged: Flirting

hey there
ive been talking to this girl, and weve been relating alot, like we both like the same weird shit, and it feels right. but i heard she was into this douchy frat jock at school. we havent hung out yet, so should i ask her to chill then mabye later on i could ask her if we could go on a date?Tagged: Relationships

what do i do on 1st dates ?? Tagged: Dating Tips

How do i shag....Tagged: Sexuality

hi
theres a girl i love and i know everything about her, we only speak on facebook but never in school and she looks at me and i look at her but i dont know if i should ask her out or not because i dont know if i like her.Tagged: First Date

hi,there is a girl i like but i dont know if i should ask her out because shes in my class, or wait for another girlTagged: First Date

my boyfriend needs his space and wants me to agree to everything he says..sometimes its ok but he becomes rude and dominates me...what should i do?Tagged: Rebound Relationships

i met a girl on face book im 9 and she's 12 and i dont where she lives i want to meet her in real life what should i do try to find her or stay home (P.S she lives in chicago like me) Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

how can i get over a break up i mean when ever i hear a song like a year without rain or que sura i miss my girlfriend
Tagged: Breakups

What if a guy brakes up with u, and in two days he wants to get back together, what should I do? Should I take him back, or stay friends for awhile? My mom is mad at him and so are all my friends.Tagged: Breakups

yea i proposed to a girl but she said no to me ,she still ask me 4 gift and anytime i talk to her on phone she will make comments about my ex what sould i do go on or stop proposingTagged: Dating Tips

My sons father and I seem like a perfect match he has many qualities that I need, but we have broken up and got back together a million times,but after our last separation I met a wonderful guy that makes me happy also in so many ways,but I miss the easiness with my sons father. I don't know what to do, who should I choose, old familiar boo or new adventure boo?Tagged: Relationships

my question is i want to move on but the to girls i like in my class one hates me and one of them is my exTagged: Breakups

im not very good at talking to girls anymore, how do i try and get a solid good relasionship with a attractive girl i see?Tagged: Dating Tips

i like 2 girls in my class one hates me now one is my ex
Tagged: Breakups

when i try to e-mail her she does not respond and im getting nervous about her and she is always on her laptop Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

how do you consider yourself a dating expert?Tagged: Dating Tips

shes moving to texas and i wont ever see her againTagged: Breakups

what is the best thing to do when you are on a date at homeTagged: Dating Tips

I just started chatting with a gentleman for the last couple of days, we seem to be interested with each other. We had not met face to face yet but I was turned off when he asked me if I had a nice butt, Is he looking for an intimate encounter? My profile says I am not. Tagged: Senior Dating

So here's a summary of what happened.... I'm in highschool, a sophomore. I started talking to this senior girl a few days ago.... and she was telling me how she's interested in me and what not. I don't have her in any classes, but I see her for a short time before and after school. 2 days ago, we hugged eachother for the first time. Then now yesterday, she gave me a ride home from school. Stayed at my house until about 7 or so. And we made out a bit and what have you... Today after school I saw her for about 10min or so as I always do, although this time when she had to leave, she simply yelled my name and said goodbye. Not even a hug.... I had thought that was some-what strange... I'm not really sure if maybe she's not as interested in me as she was before she came to my house?
Another thing about this girl, is that she is known at school for hooking up with a lot of guys. I'm not sure if this is all totally true or not, but that's just what everyone says, my bestfriend (she's a girl) told me I need to stay away from her... and she's usually right.
We have our homecoming dance next month, at first I wasn't planning on going, but now I may be rethinking that... I simply can't figure her out... any advice on what I should do next? Tagged: Teen Dating

i really need some advice on flirting on girls, im not that great on that...haha. and what if their is a girl that lives far away from me, and i still wanna flirt, or even ask them out in the future? and i see them only at camp for like a month each year? you know what i mean? Tagged: Flirting

again its me but she moved to texasTagged: Breakups

me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months. one night when we were texting each other she asked me to come over and sleep with her but i said i couldn't. did i do the right thing and what does it mean when a girl asks you to sleep with her?Tagged: Dating Issues

my gf is insecure about herself i tell she is beautiful and amazing but she still is insecure. sometimes she thinks that im to good for her and that i deserve better. what can i do to show her that she is the only one for me? Tagged: Dating Issues

Ok so I've been with the father of my almost 3 yr old for 4 and a half yrs. He's 20 yrs older than me (I'm 29) and has 2 boys from his previous marriage. We've been engaged for almost 2 yrs. the hold up? Besides money, is me. You see, he's become an increasingly heavy drinker which has affected his ability to keep a job, his relationships with his kids, even to do the upkeep of the house like mowing the yard. He was sober for 12 yrs and one day just slipped back into the alcoholism. Right now I've been staying with my mom. I myself have struggled with addiction (to speed) and by the grace of God, I got clean right after I met him. I finally found something I wanted more than drugs- a relationship with him. I mean the Bible says to basically stick with it, and support your husband, but at the same time, I was raised in an alcoholic environment and I will not expose our daughter to the same. I'm just not sure how long to keep hoping he'll "see the light" and ask for help. He's admitted he needs it, but wont take the initiative. its that vicious cycle of numbing the pain of everything and not having to face reality that sucks him back in everytime!! What do you think???Tagged: Relationships

I am a complete spaz. I met this really great guy and hung out with him twice in one week and we seemed to really hit it off and now I haven't heard from him at all. I texted him and he didn't answer me. Is that it? Did I blow it already? I feel so rejected. I don't know how to act. I was myself and don't know what I did wrong. I really want him to still be interested. Am I just paranoid or did I really blow it? Tagged: Dating Issues

not so much of a break up but the girl i like is moving and i told her i like her she likes me 2 and she was the cutest girlTagged: Breakups

i've been seeing this guys for 2 months now and It was going so great. Hes starting to not return my calls or text right away like he use to. should I let it go?Tagged: Dating Tips

Ok, so it all started when I went to my old high school friend's surprised party who I had not seen in years since graduating. We had always kept in touch online but not actually in person. Until I went to her surprised party a couple months ago. Mind you I had never been to her house before and let alone met her family either. So at this party I meet her parents and her brothers too. Specifically her older brother who is 3 years older than me. He did show interest in meeting me and later that night he friend requested me on facebook. I accepted his request and posted a comment on his wall, something along the lines of "It was nice meeting you today:)..." He replied, "Likewise, although we hardly got to talk...we should hang out sometime?" My first reaction was ok he's being nice. Then he began commenting on my photos and even suggested we go to an amusement park together on more than one occasion. I am interested in him, but I feel awkward since he is my friend's brother. And now to top it off I happen to have two tickets to Disneyland and I don't know whether to invite him or not? Should I tell my friend first? If so, how??Tagged: First Date

I've met this girl at work. She seemed interested in me. Everytime I looked at her she was looking at me. She would show up by my office constantly. At a picnic I asked her for a phone number, I got it no problem. We went out twice, movies and hanging out at a coffee place. Second time she seemed a bit upset that I had to leave only after one hour (Jokingly said that I had to get my beauty sleep). Everything seemed to be going well. Every once in a while I'd give her a snack which she loved. Until one day she just started ignoring me and rejected my gift. I asked her (via text like before) if she wanted to hang, she said she was busy that day, so i followed up asking tomorrow is OK, she just ignored me. A few days later she sent me a personality test. I took it and we compared answers, they were nearly identical (she seemed shocked), so I tried asking her out again (this time I called) three days later and the result was exactly the same, she texted me back saying she's busy. WTF? At that point I told her I thought she seemed like a special girl and told her that I started to feel like she was trying to give me a hint, and that's the case just say it because I don't want to waste my and her time. Again as in all previous times got no response. Saw her at work briefly and said hi, she seemed normal asked how my day was going, I answered and asked her back. What gives?
I had a really screwed up relationship a few years back (Only two friends know about it and they could not believe what I was telling them)I'm still affected by it. I would like to talk about this, I feel like I need help. Any suggestions?Tagged: Relationships

I told this girl my feelings but she say she dont like me , she say she like alot of things about me and i am still wooing her . what should i do ?
stop or carry on ? If i stop , she went back to her country , how ?Tagged: Relationships

What measures can i take 4my first date n what can i say?Tagged: Dating Tips

guy dating younger girlTagged: Teen Dating

I've been dating a guy for a month and we had sex last week. Is it ok to ask if we are exclusive?Tagged: Dating Issues

I want to ask a girl out, but one of my friends dated her. If i ask her out my friend will laugh at me. How do i ask her out and get my friend to stop?Tagged: Dating Tips

how do i know im not being played?Tagged: Relationships

should 3yrs in age matter when it comes to dating Tagged: Teen Dating

someone asked me out on a first date why I have not ever married. I have had personal issues which have stood in the way. that is a large part of the reason why. I have never had anyone ask me that. but when she did I was honest and I told her. the truth is I have had problems and still do. but I am functional, I am just a bit behind socially for my age. but people like myself need someone too. what am I supposed to do ? very discouraged and about to give up. Tagged: First Date

why would someone tell you that you are such a gentleman and so sweet and tell you they are looking forward to hearing from you again then never return your calls, your e-mails or call you anymore ? is everybody this fake ? I'm about to give up. Tagged: First Date

hey dd
so here is the story. one of my friends told me that i should try going out with this girl, but i never met her in my life. so i lurked her on facebook and i made the decision of trying to have a relationship with her. it sounds weird eh? so i talked to one of my other friends, and she thought it was a good idea too so she talked to her too. the girl that i wanted to go out with said she'd be interested but she doesn't know me AT ALL. so she texted me and we used to text ALOT. i thought she was a cool person, so i asked her if she wanted to hang out
she said yes, but when the day would come she would always say some excuse about it and we would reschedule. finally, she said that she wouldn't "lead me on". i dunno why, but Ive been taking it hard. shes pretty popular, more popular than me, and Ive been telling her a lot of honest things to her, like being a big pussy. im scared shes gonna tell others this......i don't even know why im asking you this, i just need to say it to someone.
haha, to be honest i don't know what to ask you. i wanna try and actually meet her, and maybe something would lead on? or just leave it......i dunnoTagged: Breakups

so when do you want to meetTagged: Meet People

i liked this guy for a really long time and i told him i liked him but then u told him i like someone else what should i do plzzzz help oh and we knew each other since kindergarten and im in 5th grade nowTagged: First Date

I have liked this girl from the moment I laid eyes on her. We got to know each other very well and even went on a datewhich went well. She was in the middle of a break with her old boyfriend and now back with him. Although I still see her a few times per week, I did express my feelings towards her. She told me that she likes me and we both want the same things in life, however she still loves him but they will never be together forever. I am confused what I do. I think I opened myself up too much and she wants that father figure type. Can I still win her over? She did say that if she was not with him that she could see being with me.Tagged: Dating Tips

How can i win a girl on the first date?Tagged: Seduction

what is it that keeps a man 100% SURE
that you're the one and only woman for him?
Tagged: Breakups

Why a man chooses one woman and not
another, and what makes him STAY
Tagged: Breakups

I have made contact on the phone several times with a prospect but now she never responds anymore. Should I keep calling or trying to make contact ?Tagged: Meet People

Can i get my ex back?
Can i get my ex back?
Me and my ex were very much in love and we were with each other for 9 months until we broke up on bad terms we were trying to sort things out i phoned her sometimes and one time she said she loves me and misses me still a week and a bit later she is in a relationship with a ugly lad who has his own place a month in she moves in with him so deleted her on facebook and she has no pictures of him on there and still has pics of me and her she joined 2 groups 1 saying will you remember cause i will never forget you and the other im not ignoring you im waiting to see if you make the effort first .The other day i see her in a club with her friends where she keeps looking across the dancefloor at one time she stared at me trying to hold the look and i turn my head to show im not bothered towards the end of the night she comes to the exact bar where im standing and i ignored her again .I still have strong feelings for her do you think she still has feelings for meTagged: Breakups

I dated one lady one time when we had dinner together. She seemed pleased with my company and told I was interesting. She said she would like to see me again. She is always busy however and also says she never likes talking on the phone but prefers to text. That is why she said she didn't return my phone calls. Perhaps she is really working a lot. I really think she is probably just not interested. What did I do or not do ? Or was it anythig I did or not ? Is there any point in staying after this one ?Tagged: Online Dating

I'm very private, quiet person. I'm usually alone most of the time and perfectly fine with it. I never take the initiative to meet people. I am very close to my family, but that's about it. I don't have any friends or people that I want to hang out with. But I'm interested in having a relationship. The problem is how to approach girls. It's not like I'm scared; it's more like I don't exactly know what to say. I'm just not as emotionally attached to people as most others are. How do I go about making connections with people? I feel like I'm not giving people the right vibes.Tagged: Meet People

How can one control jealousy in a relationshipTagged: Jealousy

How can one find out when a relationship is coming to an end.Tagged: Dating Tips

I have never touched a girl before, danced with a girl before, or made an attempt to make any physical contact. I'm always afraid that I'm going to come across as being weird. How do you go about knowing when it is right to make physical contact? What do you look for?Tagged: Flirting

I have had a casual friendship with a co-worker for a year or two but can't seem to stop wondering what it would be like to kiss him . . . or date him. We seem to be mutually attracted to one another but have sort of established a buddy-type relationship. Im wanting more and more to get bold and find the right moment to kiss him (outside of work, of course) to see what it feels like. . . . Can you give me any words of wisdom on this situation?Tagged: Relationships

I'm a socially awkward sort of person. I'm a very committed individual, but I'm not a touchy-feely sort of person. I would like to know where to find girls who are independent thinkers. I like being criticized and yearn to improve whenever I can. The only thing is: I hate small talk. I'm a very introverted person, but I'm a great listener. However, I'm not in tune with people's feelings. I can't even tell when someone is trying to flirt with me or likes me. And I'm very skeptical in nature. I am obsessed with classical music and want to become the conductor of an orchestra, but no one really appreciates my passionate attitude. I've never come across curious minded girls. Tell me how to meet people who are more like me.Tagged: Meet People

new boyfriend was meant to ring/text but hasnt? hes been working away and seems caught up with the boys in pub? why do men say they will ring+dontTagged: Dating Issues

I like this guy who I see every day multiple times.He's single and so am I.How do I get him to notice me.Tagged: Flirting

Girl i like broke up with her boyfriend. Advice

Met her last year on holiday. Spent the week together. When she got back she got back with her long term boyfriend. Her friends told me to keep interested as they say she liked me and that her and her boyfriend always split up. Now 9 months later she has split up with him. Contact with her has deterioted since this and may only speak to each other when we see each other on a night out or rarely on facebook. I have her facebook/phone number. Should I contact her/perhaps leave it until I see her again when on a night out to talk to her or do nothing. Possibilities but just need advice. Still like her after all this time, and really want to get involved with her againTagged: Relationships

Im married and dating a guy who has a girlfriend i have deep feelings for this guy and he say,s the same we spend days and time online talking about sex and sometimes internet sex..we text alot too..but during the weekends he is always with his girlfriend which whenever he is with her he never replies my texts so im confused what type of a relaton is this?Tagged: Breakups

one married girl(her husban left her) is showing interest in me & she actually want me to take her on a date ,, but i am scared whther she will blackmail me after this or what ?????Tagged: First Date

TODAY DURING COMPUTER CLASS A GIRL ASKED ME TO ACCOMPANY HER TO THE BANK AND I DID SO.WE WENT TO THE BOOKSHOP AND SHE EVEN BOUGHT A CAKE FOR THE TWO OF US.WE THEN WENT TO THE BANK TO BANK A CHECK.ALONG THE WAY SHE COMPLAINED THAT SHE WAS NOT READY TO GO HOME CAUSE SHE WILL BE BORED.AS WE WERE GOING TO THE STAGE TO PART WAYS SHE GRADUALLY CHANGED HER ATTITUDE.WHY DID SHE DO SO OR WAS IT THAT I DID NOT DO WHAT SHE WAS EXPECTING ME TO DO?(SEDUCE HER) AND IF SO HOW CAN I DO THAT CAUSE SHE HAS ALREADY SEE NO MANHOOD IN ME.Tagged: Seduction

Pliz doc i just have a crush on a particular girl but i don't know how to ask her out or let her know I like her.pliz help with some lines that i can drop on her! Tagged: Pickup Lines

hi there just wanted to know,there is this guy that i really like a lot and we had something going for a while,but were not serious because i didn't like him that time so mush,but now i realty like him a lot..the thing is his back with his ex again but i really want him back,what should i do?Tagged: Breakups

I would like to know what are some quick clues to tell if a women is open to single and open to meeting someone new ? Also, I am shy and find it hard to meet new people, can you give me some quick advice on how I can overcome my shyness ? Thanx very much.Tagged: Dating Tips

i have been dating this guy for a month now he seems sweet he wouldcome over for lunch we never go anyware together he works alot at times he would say that he would come over to see me but he never.he said he like me and wants to know me better i really like him but think he is playing me sometimes he would not call or text he said he is single but i do not believe him because he would never invite me to his place he alwyas wants to come to my place he is also off from work the same weekend when i'm off but he still would not have time for me.he came over yesterday we made love thenhe left cause he had to pick his daughter up from the air port.i text him about an hour after he left to make sure he was ok but he never call me until 8pm and he said his phone is not working properly i kept calling and texting but he would not reply but at 1am he text good night can you please give an advice is he playing me Tagged: Dating Issues

i am having problem with my nextdoor neighbour because we were having an fair and she ruined my relationship with my girlfriend and we broke up because she told her i was sleeping with her and she love and she is not ready to leave me for my girlfriend and my girlfriend left me because of this.So after all this i went back to my neighbour thinking that she truly love me as she said but after a month and 2weeks,she gave me the shock of my life by telling that she has a new guy and the new guy is the person she want to be with and she brings in the new guy into her house which i live next to her room and with this i am feel depressed and disturbut,because i feel she loves and she cant do something like that to me and i love her too.but now i need help so that i will get over the heart truma.She does nt care how i feel because i went on my knee pleading to know what was wrong but all she told me was to go back to my ex girlfriend.Tagged: Breakups

have not heard from you. picture looks cute. so want to meet sometime for a cup of coffee?Tagged: Flirting

There is a guy i have been dating for couple of months now, i got to know him tru my classmate in the univ who happens to be his sis,i am planning to go for my masters abroad by dec while he is equally planning the same thing but the problem is that he does not want to go to the same country with me he stylishly refused application to my school, which means we will not be seeing often for some years to come and he is equally asking me to be his wife.my fear is that could it be that he never meant what he professed bcouse age is no more on my side and i would wish to get settled while am on my masters programm hopefully early next year,but he does not seem to see things from my perspective.thanks i need a convincing response. Tagged: Relationships

how to satisfy my wifeTagged: Sexuality

What should i do when a girl likes me?Tagged: Teen Dating

I sometimes like to smuggle 40 ounces of Old English, Mad Dog, or Boones Farm wine into movies. I sometimes drink so many that I wake up the next morning hung over, sitting in the same movie seat wondering "how have i done this again?" A girl I really like even says that I am an alcoholic and that my movie habits are a red flag. What do I do?Tagged: Breakups

I like to be eatin greasy chips when im on a date. Sometimes i wipe the grease on my shirt, and eat an entire bag in one sitting. Thats hot right?Tagged: Breakups

what do you do if you feel like you and your boyfriend are gonna break upTagged: Relationships

I would like to know where is the best places to meet women who do not drink ?Tagged: Dating Tips

I recently was semi-introduced to a girl by a mutual friend. She seemed interesting so we met up the other night at a local bar. I arrived at the bar early with some friends and she arrived later, alone. She was beautiful, and got along very well with my friends, only problem was I couldn't get a word in because one of my friends was such a talker.

Realizing the importance of first impressions I am kind of nervous that she didn't get to know me well at all and I may not get a second date. I think she is semi-jaded from past relationships, and not very interested in dating to begin with.

She has a good poker face and I really dont get much feedback from her. Any advice?Tagged: First Date

No question, just a comment- you have a great smile boo. Tagged: Dating Tips

I've been talking to this guy over the phone for 2 1/2 months now and we first got to know each other like a year ago and we talked for a couple months then but we went on a date and I was really shy and the date didnt go good and I didn't think that he really wanted to take it further so we just kept in on a casual level and just txtd each other from time to time but recently he started back texting me and acting like he's interested again, he started out calling me names like "boo" and "sweety" and giving me compliments but now he doesn't say it as often and he's currently not working so we haven't been out on another date yet and I want to and he acts like he wants to also but I think that because he doesnt have a job now or a vehicle that he's holding back from asking me. I know that hes a good guy and he's the kind of guy that I would love to date and have something with but I want to know if you think it's worth my time? I saw it like this, since he made the first step and started things back up that it had to be for a reason and maybe he wants me to be the one but he's in a bad place rite now and don't know how to deal with it. Can u help me..please!!Tagged: Dating Tips

places to meet non drinking women
Tagged: Dating Tips

i have been seeing a guy for 7 weeks on casual dates. i really like him.

two week ago, he invite himself to come to my place. we arange a date and time. two days before the date, he text to say he will not be able to come. he did not give any reasons. i text him back to say it's ok if i can come. he has not call or text me since then.

does this mean he has find someone better and he has dump me?Tagged: Breakups

i told my second boyfriend about my first boyfriend before accepting to date him,now he want me to breakup with the first guy or he end the relationship.wat should i do.Tagged: Breakups

how do u know if a boy has cheated on uTagged: Breakups

hey, i really think this girl at school is really attractive...i really wanna go out with her, i tried to talk to her on facebook but she didnt answer... is that a sign that shes not into me? if not (hopefully) how am i supposed to make her like me? and go out with her?Tagged: Teen Dating

I took my friend out to eat and since then she has called me once.Did I do something wrong.Tagged: Teen Dating

my boy friend was traped by married women wen he was in 12th.now he wants to marry me.now she is black mailing him by threatening him Tagged: Relationships

i been dating for 10 months and he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriendTagged: Dating Tips

me and my wife were seperated for a few weeks and I cheated on her with some girl I don't care about. My wife and I are back together but I feel so horrible. What should I do? I'm afraid if I tell her she will leave me.Tagged: Cheating

I'm going on a date with a really hot girl i like on Saturday. I drive a real clunker car and know she likes nice cars, she's mentioned it before. She's never seen my car, I'm thinking of renting a car to impress her, or maybe borrow my friend's Corvette. What do you think?Tagged: First Date

How long after a breakup should I wait to start dating again?Tagged: Breakups

went out with wonderful girl..everything was going great..the connections..kisses,now does not return phone calls text etc...i really feel that i love herTagged: Breakups

so yeah, i went out with this girl last summer for a pretty long time, and i reallllyy miss the memories we have, and i think i still like her from even the summer. when i wanna talk to her, i just look like a fool and i feel like she knows that i still like her which i dont. and she always looks at me sometimes. so heres my question. how should i win her back? and when shes looking at me frequently, is that i sign?Tagged: Rebound Relationships

What do you have to say about long distance relationships?can real love exist?Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and started having sex after 5 months. is it too late to be monogamous with him?Tagged: Relationships

what happens if you date a girl with Leucemia?Tagged: Dating Issues

whats the best way to play hard to getTagged: Dating Tips

my boyfriend and i have been together for close to a year now,bt for some months now,he has been out of work and so i have to support him with my income hoping he would get a job soon,my mom and my friends dont think he is fit for me.recently our next door neighbours daughter came back from school,she is very busty and all the guys around started talking of sleeping with her,i came home one day and there was a fight going on between my boyfriend and the girls elder sister,then i gathered from people that my boyfriend took her into our apartment all night since i went to my folks,i confronted him over dis issue and he clearly denied it,saying she was in with his friend and not him.and i believed him,but i became suspicious,i conducted a search on my own and found out my boyfriend was actually having a relationship with her,i read all their messages,i called d both of them together,he broke down and started begging me in her front that he loves me and he is sorry,that the guys made him do it.he made her feel cheap in my front,said she meant nothing to him,that he did not sleep with her,bt only touched her breast.she tried creating a scene bt he walked her out,i couldnt get over the shock for two days.now i find it hard to trust him anymore.
also our love making isnt so passionate anymore,he gets on me and climbs down once he is ok,even though am not satisfied,i dnt feel like a woman anymore.should i break up with him,he cant satisfy me financially and now sexually and i cant trust him anymore.what should i do?i know this sound dumb but i really do love him,and when he had money he was really good to me,i guess he is feeling less than a man with his present financial state.what do uyou think?Tagged: Dating Issues

I've been dating this guy for a year now, and I want to take it to the next level. I'm 35 years old and want to get married and start a family! How do i prod him in that direction without scaring him off, he is still into hanging out with his buddies on the weekends! My biological clock is ticking away!!!!!Tagged: Relationships

I am a stay at home type of guy and I have a hard time date because i am not into the party scene but most of the girls i have meet are so it does not last because they prefer the bad boy image. Do you have any suggestions. Should i break out of my mole and do things i do not want to do?Tagged: Dating Tips

its been three weeks sense this girl and i decided to give it a try. We aren't officially going out, and we aren't really intimate. She likes me but she said she wanted to take things slow. What are some things i can do to get her to want to go to the next level? I'm getting really tired of always being around her and not being intimate. I want it to be obvious that we are more than friends.Tagged: Intimacy

when your boyfriend tells you that he needs to step away and clear his head, what does that exactly mean?Tagged: Relationships

I have had a short relationship with a girl, I am Caucasian, she is African American. I don't know if it will work long term, I Don't know if my family will ever accept her, what would you do?Tagged: Dating Issues

My girlfriend is a little homely, I love her, but am embarassed in front of my friends> For this reason I usually leave her at home when we go out! Lately she has been pushing me to take her along> What should I do?Tagged: Dating Issues

Sex on first date?Tagged: First Date

when are you going to call Carlos and say hello?Tagged: Meet People

tell me about yourselfTagged: Dating Tips

My girlfriend is kinda on the lazy side. she is always reading a book or sleeping and does not get up to go out and do things. Iam a very active person and iI do not like sitting around. Should i dump her and find another girlfriend that like going out or do you think I can change my current girlfriend? Tagged: Relationships

whats the best way to get over a broken heart?Tagged: Breakups

I have a guy friend who I really like and who I think is into me as well. I want to ask him out on a casual, friendly date, but don't know how to without being weird- we are good friends. Also, he is almost always with a group of 3 or 4 other friends (who are my friends too) so how do I ask him out without being obvious that I don't want the others to tag along on this friendly date?Tagged: Dating Tips

I just found out the guy I have been dating is a married man. I really like this guy but I do not know what to do. Should I wait around or should I also date other guys while I wait?Tagged: Dating Issues

I meet this girl a week ago and we hit it off. i call her about 10 times aday but she does not return my calls. What should i do. would you go to her house and find out whats going on? Tagged: Meet People

DD i have been dating this guy for awhile and he is a nice guy but he has a big belly which is a real turn off for me. how do i tell him nicely to lose it or lose me?Tagged: Dating Issues

How do I approach a good looking girl and get her to open up to meTagged: Pickup Lines

hey again. thanks for replying, great advice.
i just have one more question for you DD. i have like this best friend, and shes been helping me alot with my relsionships over the years. we hang out alot and stuff, but now it feels like i like her. i dunno, it might be just the old hormones kickin in, but i dunno. should i tell her or is that just weird?Tagged: Dating Tips

Hi DD, You look quite young but somehow I believe you concerning the experience factor. I am approaching the big 60 though many say I look 10 years younger. I was married 35 years and frankly barely dated before I married. How do I get started? Kitty CatTagged: Senior Dating

i have been dating a boy for 2 months and he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. should i worry?Tagged: Dating Tips

how can i stop being so clingy with my boyfriendTagged: Dating Tips

i met a guy last thursday and he asked me on a date for next friday. we talk online and we find it hard to conversation going. Then he sugested we meet up before we go. at 1st he wanted me to go to his house but i didnt have time so i asked him to meet me in town for lunch. then on tuesday something came up he had to mind his neohew. i didn't mind. then yesterday evening he was talking about how he had the flu and how ill he was and wouldnt know if he would be well enough for friday. i didn't say anything but i found it odd. then i decided to say to him that i had other plans i couldnt make it. then he text back i wouldnt be able to make it anyway. Is he making excuses to not see me or is he blowing me off.Tagged: Meet People

so im with this guy, but he's two years older than me. We have been together for 3 months.....will it work out?Tagged: Relationships

I really love this girl and I've asked her out. the reply she gave me was"I am going out with this guy but of late we are not in talking terms anymore, but i like you and don't want to hurt you but he still claims he likes me so I'm confused". i just can't let her go so what should i do now??????Tagged: Dating Tips

I am a gay male about to start in a University freshman year, at the age of 19. I spend my time with my beloved, very sexy boyfriend Steven. We have been together for four years and he was my first EVERYTHING! And when i say everything, i mean everything. My first kiss, my first hug, my first sexual experience, and the first person i was ever attracted to. I have always wanted to be with him and his feeling are reciprocated, but this yeah on a drunken night, Steven and I went out with our straight friend Chris to a party. Steven and I have know Chris for a while and though he has always been straight, he loves to flirt with us, to us it is harmless, something we do as a couple. So at this party there is nothing different, we drink, flirt and kiss (Steven and I) and we head home, because we were going to crash in together, Chris asks if he can come along. Which we obviously agree to. During the night, Steven starts to get frisky and when i look over to ensure the Chris is a sleep and it is confirmed. My boyfriend and I start fooling around, which soon turn into sex. But i am so gone and into the moment that i don't realize Chris has awoken and is watching as he masturbates. In our state we just smile at each other and continue our sexual act. That morning (June 1st, before we go the beach house, just Steven and I) Chris comes out to us, telling us, though he is straight he might be Bi curious or bisexual and wants to be with us sexually.

Because i am scared of sharing my boyfriend, no matter how much emotion is involved i say; "We'll think about it, why don't you accompany us to the beach house" ...

The morning of August 11th, i find Chris and Steven having sexual intercourse. I am furious and i tell he CANNOT sleep in my bed tonight and because it is a two bedroom condo, he takes the Couch.

I am stressed out and i feel betrayed, he has apologized, given me more the 30 reasons why he loves me( and i was counting) for eight days he has slept outside my door repeating those reason verbatim. I love him, i want him, but i can't trust him around my best friend Chris!

Please Help! Tagged: Breakups

Okay, I really like this girl and I invited her to go to the movies with me and another one of my friends that is a girl. I asked her kind of casually, like i would if i was just inviting a friend and now i'm not sure if it would be appropriate to pay for her for the movie. Any Suggestions?Tagged: First Date

I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR 5 1/2 YEARS.

WE BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER A LOT. IN THE PAST A LONG TIME AGO HE USED TO DATE OTHER GIRLS BEHIND MY BACK AND THEN STOPPED FOR A LONG TIME. THE OTHER DAY HE SAID HE WENT ON A WEBSITE WHERE YOU CAN BE IN CONTACT WITH SCHOOLMATES HE USED TO GO TO SCHOOL. HE MENTIONED SOME MEN AND WOMEN NAMES. I ASKED HIM WAS HE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND HE SAID NO.

I GUESS THERE IS THIS DOUBT IF HE IS BEING TRUE TO ME. WHAT CAN I DO OR ASK HIM WITHOUT MAKING HIM MAD?Tagged: Relationships

Ok I had this girl that liked me a while ago and i didn know it. She was also my best friend and i didnt want to lose that. A few years later i find that i still have feelings for her and am a the point where i cant run from my feelings anymore.The scenario has changed however becaus were not as close as we use to be and she is datiing someone. She has already told me that the relationship doesn't have permanent potential but its still been a long time thing. Help?Tagged: Relationships

I have been out of the dating or relationship game for two years. I have had a couple dates maybe one or two a year. but they dont amount to anything. I have a great friend that I know cares alot about me to the point that she has said that she would move out of state if it werent for me and the only reason she is staying is to be with me. i know it sounds kind of chessey but, i do beieve her. and i do want to be in a relationship at somepoint. but my biggest fear is that ifwe do break up that it may destroy the friendship and we never talk again and i dont want that to happen. so how do i face this fear? also i want to let her know that i care and maybe move our relationship past holding hands and hugging what should i do to show her i want to be serious?Tagged: Relationships

I like this guy thats in the millitary, he likes me to we met off of a website, our first date we went out to dinner, and then we got a room, and had sex all day which was wonderful, b4 all this happen we shared a lot of conversation on the phone about his lifestyle his family my lifestyle anyways we both are in fatuated with each other and i just want to know is it to soon for me to fall in love with this guy so soon? am i really in love? he has a kid i have none...his son is adorable but his dad don't get to see him much b/c he'sin the service. If it is love how do i continue being in love with someone who's all ways away from home!!!!!Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

how can I chat a lady up? And what are the cookie and funny thigs to say to a lady to make her laugh?Tagged: Meet People

I like this girl. we went to a banquet last night, i saw some good signs, but were they the right signs?

she's too peppy to know if she's into me. i see some very good signs, but i'm not exactly sure, so i didn't know whether or not i should make the move. and i didn't complement her at the appropriate moments. i think i did a poor job with that, specifically. obviously, i have no clue if she really likes me or not, but i know for sure that i really like her. and we had some good conversations, and she laughed at most of my stuff because i'm a funny guy. just as a little side not, i was a little drunk, but in the zone, i think. plus, i have some sources (i.e. some of her friends), and she lives next to me, so it might not be super difficult. what do i do?!Tagged: Flirting

so i've got this great girl i've been going out with for a couple months now, she just beautiful and stuff. But she just has some problems with being romantic and loving sometimes. She just doesn't know how to react to a lot of things and she really isn't very romantic, and i am so its fun for a while but imm wondering what i should do... because sometimes it leaves me feelin bad. Just kinda unloved, but i know she means well. any advice?Tagged: Relationships

ok me and this girl went out for a week but we still love each other we broke up because we didnt get to see each other.everytime we see each other we do as much as possible with each other.what should we do?Tagged: Breakups

My boyfriend didn't invite me to spend christmas with him and his family. He expected I woud be with my family, however he inivted some other girl from his church group because he felt sorry for her because of her situation and is alone I understand but at the same time i would like to meet his family and this friend of his. he says she knows about me but I don't know that for sure. We have talked about it and he says that there is nothing there at all. and insists I'm the one for him and that we are in a relationship. He says he wants her to hang out with his sister because he feels that she needs a friend his sister is single by the way. However I just can help feeling unwanted and hurt and overlooked. I am try to be understanding but the reality of it is I don't understand it because I don't like the situation period and am not finding any real comfort with this I don't know what else to doTagged: Relationships

I have gotten out of a tiring relationship about 1 1/2 yrs ago... since then I have not gotten involved with anyone nor have I gone on any dates... I needed some time to understand myself...



it was until the last three months when I started to get very attracted to this beautiful young woman... It was obvious that she was attracted to me also BUT.... I have been so out of the dating scene that I became very shy and bashful... in other words I act like the "loser" that fumbles with his words and oblivious to any hints... she hinted to me about having dinner sometime about a month ago... I finally got some nerve to take her offer on dinner... thing is... she asked if i cooked and not realizing where she was going at I said no... it seemed that dissappointed her so she declined... is there any way to salvage my goof up or should I just forget about it? Thanks much for your aidTagged: Meet People

please help me i feel like crap :(



i've been going out with a girl for a little over a month and we still haven't kissed cuz we're never alone at school. how do i make things more serious between us??



also, some other guy keeps touching her, and even though everyone says i should beat him up (i want to), she told me she doesn't want me to because it reminds her of her dad (who's apparently over-protective). but i still can't help feeling mad when the guy touches her, and i feel really bad :(Tagged: Jealousy

Once upon a time, there was a guy who liked a girl. But does the girl like the guy?



We are in a lot of the same classes and often do partner stuff in class. We talk to each other everyday, and I feel we are friends even if we don't really hang out besides for school. However, some days it seems maybe she likes him, and other days, it doesn't seem so. Her friends seem to know a lot more about me , even if I don't really know them. Yet, every time I even mention the weekends, she either changes topic or talks about her own weekend about what shes doing that weekend



This is simply a short part of this whole thing. I feel like I'm getting mixed messages.



What is going on? How can a guy tell if a girl really likes the guy?

Tagged: Meet People

im in highschool and i've got a thing with this girl. Well after school i usually see her, but sometimes she'll just leave. Without out stopping by me or anything, we don't really see much of eachother during the day. Should i be concerned that she doesn't like me. Or she wants me to find her. Because shes always looking at me when i see her from a distance. whats happenin?Tagged: Teen Dating

I have this boy at my high school that is so so cute to me. I liked him since the first day of school and I didn't know he had a girlfriend already since last year. On the phone he tells me to behave in school, keep my grades up, and don't be having sex. He tells me to be a good girl and he is like a other brother to me. I had told him that. We sung to each other on the phone the other night and we told each other how much we loved each other and I told him to be honest with me and he was. He told me that he had a dream that we got married. My friends kept telling me that we make a cute couple. He told me in my face that I was very beautiful and that if he was single he would go with me, but his face was as serious as anyone else when he said that. I asked him how much he likes me and he said alot and he also said that he liked his girlfriend a lot too. You see, the thing about them is is that they break up and make up too much. When they're back together they are happy and he even told me that we are gonna go out this year. He wants to go out with me bad cuz we give each other hugs and kisses everyday. He's really sweet and we like each other alot. It is not that easy to break up with his girl to go with me. I already told him I am not ever going to lose my virginity to anybody until I get married. He told me to not make the same mistake he did when he lost his virginity at an early age. We are both Freshman. What should I do? I've been told that I need to wait. He likes me for who I am, and I like him for that too. He will fight and take up for you. I've been told that we should just be friends and just wait for a while. Mostly the whole school knows that they go out so my best friend 4 life told me that we should go together in secret and nobody won't know but me and him and her, but I've been told that's cheating, so I need to wait. People at school now days are messy so we are just keeping everything a secret to ourselves. My best friend told me that we almost have everything in common. What should I do if we want to go with each other but not yet, and he still love his girl and have feelings for her? He has feelings for me too now. I've also heard that he has to make a choice. Am I the right one fro him or his girl? His girl lets other boys touch on her and pick her up sometimes when he's not around and she trys to be innocent sometimes but she still cares for him and he does too. I do also. What's going on? Tagged: Teen Dating

I like this girl, and it seems like she likes me too, we were talking for couple weeks now, we already made out, and even had sex. couple times, it sounds like she is talking to sombody too, but i know that she is not happy with him, and when i asked her Why would u be with somebody who u not happy with.she said, i donno but i dont trust that guy , i think he is fake, and i tald her, then u sholdnt be with him. and she said but i dont know what i want. when i text her, sometime she would respond couple hours later, so honestly i have no idea what she wants, it seems like she likes me but at the same time i feel like she doen't, what do u think i should do? i just wanna know if she wants me to be her friend with benefits :) or she is just taking slowly. Tagged: Relationships

My girlfriend only likes one position. She likes the cowgirl position and nothing else. She says all the other ways it gets too deep and hurts. What should I do? It's gotten really boring doing the same old position.Tagged: Intimacy

how do u get a girl when everybody thinks you are a drugy?Tagged: Dating Tips

well im young. (pretty young) and i like this older women at work. shes 7 years older than me (23) but thats not my prob. she has 2 kids and a husband that she is currently about to divorce (all the legal crap is rolling) and i know she likes me 2 (seems that ways, everyone one at works seems to as well)

but she doesn't seem to want to do anything. she calls all the time (should see my phone bill) and she lets me take her out, and she does not act "distant" what should i do?Tagged: Rebound Relationships

This isn't necessarily a dating question per se. But here goes:



I like to go out often, I frequent places that are common pick up areas for guys like clubs and parties. I'm single but I'm not looking. If I were, I wouldn't hesitate to make the first move towards a guy. My question is what are some ways you can let a guy know who is being too aggressive to leave you alone without making the situation worse. I do not like being grabbed, touched, fondled, or even as much ogled by most men. I got out with the same friend, who isn't a very observant person, and I've told her if she doesn't look out for me like I do her, than perhaps we shouldn't go out anymore.



Any thoughts?Tagged: Flirting

the love of my life is moving and i want to kiss him so he will always remembers me but when ever i am with him he wants me to i want to but my body dosnt let me please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i need goodbye kissing tips!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Tagged: Intimacy

me and my boyfriend have a distance relationship an im 14 an he is 17 how can i make our 1st date specialTagged: Teen Dating

how do i get a guy if he got tricked into dating another girl please please Tagged: Dating Issues

Idenitfy Yourself, hello my name is John Costa and im an extremely horny guy. I am interested in women with big build. How do i attract big women? do i buy them food?

Tagged: Seduction

how can i talk to a girl i want on the phone i will go out of questions and then she will act as if she dose'nt want to talk to me but she likes me very much how can i ask her out? Tagged: Dating Tips

who should make the first move when you want to kiss the guy or the girl?Tagged: First Date

here goes! ive been seein this guy i met off myspace hes goin thru a divorce an is very interested in me.. we have fun together,im there when he needs me to help with the kids an i enjoy his kids,, ive spent the nite an i slept on sofa out of respect for his kids..he dont know wat he wants but hes made it clear he dont want me datein other guys or even messin with guys.. ive met the family an his best friends please give me advice as to wat should i do i wana see him but he has me confused on wat he wants im goin crazy tryin to figure him out tamiTagged: Dating Tips

hi kyle i'm internet lover i have seen a beautiful lady in myspace website. i want to message her but i dont know to give her some message like a topic pls. give some advice.Tagged: Online Dating

In a long distance relationship, how long is to long to be away from eachotherTagged: Long Distance Relationships

Lets say your in a long distance relationship but the person your having the relationship with isn't allowed to see you. Would it be bad to go behind your parents backs and see them anyways?Tagged: Long Distance Relationships

What would be a good first date. Dinner at a small inexpensive resteraunt (not fast food) and a movie or a 3 hour dinner at a nicer resto? Tagged: First Date