Sex Without Intercourse

couple in bedMany conservative dating couples tend to feel wary about intimacy, fearing that it would violate their vows of not having sex until after marriage. Although sex technically pertains to penile-vaginal intercourse, there are many types of sexual behaviors that couples can use to spice up their relationship without having sexual intercourse.

Intimacy through touch

Touching each other in a sexual manner is not a sign of immature, high school-ish relationship. Many people tend to associate intimate touching as an activity only done during your "first experiences" about love. However, sexual touching is a great opportunity to explore each other’s bodies, discovering what our partner’s body feels like, what makes it excited as well as its turn-offs.

Getting intimate through the power of touch can be a powerful and worthwhile experience, as this sense can convey your feelings towards your partner in a much deeper sense compared to looking "googly" at each other’s eyes. You can either touch each other in the dark, or better yet with the lights on.

Communicate without words

Aside from the words we say and the way we speak, we also communicate with other people through subtle movements. For instance, if your partner is gazing into your eyes with a look of desire, it may leave a tingly feeling all over your body. This exchange of non-verbal communication can also be explored during your intimate times.

An example of such non-verbal intimacy is tantric sex, which focuses more on the "feeling of excitement" towards your partner rather than achieving sexual penetration and orgasm (in simple terms, you can call it a "foreplay marathon").

Talking dirty

Dirty talk is sometimes mistakenly seen as raunchy. However, it is something you do while having sex, but some people are afraid to do it either because they are unsure how it works or how to perform it well enough to your partner’s satisfaction.

You should not devoid yourself of enjoying sexual pleasure through language. Learn how to take your partner to the point of extreme sexual intensity, but not so much that they would be pushed over the top. You can start by reading erotic stories to each others, exchanging phone sex, cyber sex among others.

 
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