Breaking free from a relationship you’re not supposed to be in in the first place is difficult. The feeling is not actually that far from breaking up with a boyfriend or a husband, or the feeling of unrequited love.
The subject of heartbreak, heartache and unrequited love has played with many artistic souls’ imaginations. Poets write about that. Artists create their masterpiece inspired by them. Millions of love songs are written about it. It’s one of the most common and most painful feeling,
Someone wrote that even though we are at pain, we do not want to let go of it because it’s the only thing that links us to that person we love. So even though we hurt, we don’t ‘allow’ the pain to go away.
Another reason why we hold on to love that is not for us is because we think that there is no one else like the person we love in the whole world. Thus, we do not give other people a chance. This is sad because the guy you didn’t give a chance might be the one could make you happy.
When we fall in love or got our hearts broken, logic and reason get thrown out the window. What’s left is that all that emotion. Which doesn’t mean that it’s going to be like this forever? Change will come eventually. You just have to allow things to change. As one song said, love is a "hard habit to break".
You might not notice things have changed because change comes a bit slowly – but they do. One day you’ll look back and see how much has happened, to you and every thing around you.