One day, you received a call from your ex and he or she asks you to go out. Apparently, your ex misses you and wants you back. It may be so sudden, but you need to think quick in order to resolve this issue.
Do not be too emotional about it – It is easy to remember all of the good times and totally forget about all of the bad things because you have an emotional void that you need to fill. Don’t be blind and don’t trust too soon. Besides, perhaps your ex wanted you back as a friend.
Evaluate your reality check – Do you have a reason to believe that thing will be completely different if the two of you decide to to get back together? Relationships can easily be compared to a plate: Once it’s broken, it’s hard to put it back together.
See if both of you can compromise more – Meeting halfway is a common problem in relationships, as sometime either the two of you wanting to do things his or her way. If you would remain unbending to your ex, then why should you become lovers again?
Follow your gut feel – If you have any doubts about getting back with your ex, then you probably should not.
Rememer the reason it didn’t work out the first time – People rarely change. Getting back together might just make you upset a second time. Think back about the issues that you have had. Would they reoccur? Would you handle them differently?
Don’t let your ex manipulate you by making promises – “I promise I’d change” is probably overused by exes. Remember to keep your cool and your emotions intact when dealing with your ex.
Get back with your ex for the right decisions – Remember that if you’re thinking of getting back together just to fill the lonely time or because you are scare to stay single, you’ll reduce the chances of you ever attracting someone who is perfect for you.