Relationship is about growing up, sharing what you have with your partner as the time pass by for the both of you. Relationship or rather having a commitment is not about making your partner your world but merely sharing yours with hers and hers with yours so to have growth.
Being with someone is really fantastic. You will get to be treated well, loved, pampered by your beloved but not all relationship gets a very good ending. In fact, most of them get a tragic end. For most people they usually get and get to suffer more from heartaches first hand before really finding and ending up with someone who treasures them so much.
They say that ending up with someone really great and deciding to commit with them is really a blessing or rather luck. Yet again, I say that it is merely the way of life. We do not own the people who come into our lives. Most of them just pass by us so to make us feel that we are appreciated, know that we are special, make us feel special or rather teach us a lesson.
For every heart breaks then, it is good and normal to cry yet never forget and make a lot of effort to move one because happiness does not end with a failed relationship. Relationships do end at times. But the break up may be a venue for a good start with someone much better.
The ordeal of breakups maybe hard and long for one party, the other party or both parties pending on how much they love each other. There are also many factors why relationships come to an end. Some says that they are breaking up because they are already bored, physical abuse, being on a stagnant level of relationship and others. Yet again, the bottom line for breaking up is when the relationship does not work anymore or you do not love the person you are with.
There is no sense at being with someone that you already do not love just for the heck of keeping the relationship. There is no sense and being with someone when everything is not working properly.
Having a relationship is about investing your emotions, time and things that you have with your partner for something great to look forward in the future which is still staying in each other’s arms and being happy. But how can you be happy with your partner in the future when all is not working now? The best time to break up with your fiancé is when everything else already failed for you or for the both of you.