Breaking up is a painful experience. It can give you that feeling of failure or loss over a relationship. A break up is not always that bad. It may be necessary for a relationship that just won’t work any way you look at it. A break up can also teach you some valuable lessons that will make you wiser and realize some of the things that you may have taken for granted. Here are some examples.
You realize how great your friends are.
After the break up, you naturally felt alone and depressed. You imagine that it is the end of the world for you. If it were not for your friends who comforted you, you just cannot imagine how you were able to survive such a harrowing and painful experience. It is through such instances that you begin to appreciate the value of true friendship. Friends help put you back on your feet when you have fallen down.
Relationships do not always have a happy ending.
After the break up, you begin to realize that not all relationships end up on a happy note. No matter how you through that you were perfect for each other, it only takes a break up to make you realize that not all of the good things end up the way you wanted. It makes you wiser in the sense that you become more careful the next time you have another relationship.
Everything gets back to normal eventually.
A failed relationship is always painful. But despite all that, you will eventually realize that the pain lessens with time. During the first days of the break up, you may feel depressed, sad and hurt. But as time goes by, you can get over those feelings. It all depends on the support that you get during the ordeal. But eventually you will discover that the hurt and the pain are temporary.