Dating can be exciting and fun. But at a certain point, people start to wonder if this will lead into anything more serious. The aim of most people when dating is to meet someone whom they feel will be ideal for them to start a relationship with. There are also times when people date just for the fun of it. If you have already been into several dates with someone, here are some signs that may indicate that he or she is not really into you.
Well some may call it as excuses, but lying constantly may be an indication that your date may not be as serious. It may be as benign as telling you what you wish to hear instead of the truth. It can also be something such as making excuses why he or she cannot meet with you. When it becomes a regular habit, it shows that your date may either be hiding something from you or trying to keep your dates a secret from everyone else. These things usually do not lead to favorable results later on.
Not willing to meet halfway on certain issues.
Some dates want to assert their own beliefs or authority over others. They want to be the one on the controls. These behaviors can sometimes be exhibited early on in your dates as having frequent disagreements on certain issues. If a date is not willing to give way or offer a compromise on things where your stand is opposite of each other, then that might indicate someone who is accustomed to always being the authority. If you see this happening during your dates, then let that be a warning sign that you need to consider if your date is really into you or just to control and exert authority over you.
Too many cancelled dates.
This is a clear indication that your date may not be really into you. If you have set a date to meet and suddenly your partner cancels it, that can be quite a hassle. It may be fine if it happens once. But if it becomes a regular thing, then something might be amiss. It is either your date is really busy that you are not really a priority or your date just wants you to be there when you are needed at his or her convenience. Unfortunately, it may be a sign of worse things to come.