Breakup and Tell
Once you’ve found out your boyfriend’s been cheating, there’s no reason to preserve his good reputation. Tell your friends, tell his friends, tell your cousin’s dog-walker that your ex is a big ole’ cheater and we guarantee he’ll have to do some serious soul-searching before he can move on. Word of mouth is a great way to accomplish this goal, but email or Facebook may help you get the job done faster. Just sayin’.
Surprise HimEveryone knows someone who’s been in this situation: you find out that your man’s been cheating on you with before he knows that you know. Are you following? Good. The next step is to contact the other woman – chances are, she didn’t know about you, either. Make a plan to confront your shared cheater together – invite him out for a hot date, but keep the location secret. Call his best pals and tell them you’re planning a surprise for your guy at his favorite bar. When you show up, his other lover will be there as well – lay your cards on the table, then let your guy watch while you both walk out of his life.
To read the other ways go to Betty Confidential
I thought these were some pretty clever ways of dealing with a cheater. I have to admit, that I would love to contact my ex’s new wife and let her know that he is a pathological lair and cheater. The only thing that stops me is the hope that the man has changed. I would have to also admit that I don’t believe that people change all too much and that I seriously doubt he has either. The ultimate decision was to leave him alone. Why would I want to even get involved in that mess again? I am just happy I saw his colors soon enough to get out. There is no such thing as a happy relationship without trust.