Finding a partner is a fulfillment in a gay mans life. However, how would you be at ease if your partner has been sending mixed signals in regards to what he wants in your relationship. Is he planning to be with you on a long-term basis, or would he would rather keep the relationship brief and sweet?
It is difficult to determine where things would develop after only a few dates. Even if there is a connection, both partners are still blinded that their fascination on each other that it can quickly turn into moments of rage. Although we hope that it won’t happen, only time will tell.
Take time and get to know your new prospect and the relationship develop on its own. Do not over-analyze the signals, either. You are still feeling for each other out so the signals may not be exactly what you think they are.
Show through your actions that you are very much willing to make him your man. You will know when it is the right time to talk about a LTR (sometimes, this is not even discussed but it just happens naturally). In the meantime, enjoy spending time with a guy you really like.