People do crazy things when in love. Okay, sometimes it may not be so crazy. These things can become habits that people think is done in good fun or out of love. But sometimes, they can affect the relationship in a negative way. Here are some of those common habits that you might want to consider stopping when you are in a relationship.
Habit of Overanalyzing
Some people may have the habit of trying to take the relationship too seriously. They want to analyze everything regarding the relationship, from where it would be 10 years from now to the underlying meaning behind each comment made about the relationship or to each other. Either it is a sign of insecurity or you are trying too hard to make the relationship work. This habit can sometimes cause friction between couples. If you are guilty of this type of habit, try to stop it now. Relish and appreciate the relationship for what it is at the present and not how it is going to be in the future. Do not take everything so seriously that it is causing you to worry.
Habit of Teasing
Although it may just be in good fun, making a habit of teasing can go overboard. While it may be fun once in a while, too much teasing can get on your partner’s nerves. He or she may not longer find it funny. Try to tone down your teasing in a way that you are not trying to make fun of your other half. When you see the signs that it is no longer funny, it is time to stop it.
Habit of Smothering Love
Some people can be so in love that they can’t stand not being with their partner. And so they try to send text messages at a rate of once a minute. Although that may be a bit exaggerated, some people have this habit of trying to flood love messages in different ways, to a point where the partner realizes that it is getting a bit crazy. Try to stop this habit by giving it a time out. Avoid sending out messages or calling your boyfriend or girlfriend on the phone. Give them time to breath once in a while.
The PDA Habit
Some people can be so in love that they no longer are aware of their surroundings. They get into the love rituals even while they are in public. They kiss, hug, and say sweet, cheesy nothings to each other within earshot of other people. These public displays of affection can be quite awkward to look at. It can affect other people enough to make comments on you lovebirds. Either out of jealousy, envy or something else, the public may not want to see all the PDA. It is one relationship habit that you need to stop.