Stopping Verbal Abuse in a Relationship

Verbal abuse is a common problem among many couples today. It is the woman who usually ends up the victim. Verbal abuse can come in different shapes and forms. They may be subtle or they can be flat out direct and damaging. Both ways, they can cause harm emotionally and mentally.

A problem with verbal abuse is that the woman sometimes may not be able to find herself in any trouble or hurt. You can sometimes call it love that endures, but that is what most women end up doing. They try to look beyond the abuse just to keep the relationship last. For the woman, it can be quite a confusing situation.

However, there are some cases where the woman must draw the line. Verbal abuse from a partner can already be doing more harm and hurt than what one can endure. There are ways that women can stop verbal abuse. Here are some of the ways:

Stop denying and start accepting.

Some women just do not want to accept that they are a victim of verbal abuse, or that the level they have to endure does not constitute abuse. Denial can cause the problem to worsen. The only way to stop it is when women learn to accept the problem and start working towards the road of healing and recovery.

Set limits.

Verbal abuse sometimes escalates because women just take and take and remain silent about it. It is important to set limits and let a partner know that it is going overboard. Saying “Stop” can be a powerful weapon against verbal abuse.

Ask for help.

Verbal abuse can reach to such a degree that a victim or the couple can no longer work on it to resolve the issues. The help of a counselor or a therapist may be needed in such cases of ever the woman would like to see improvements.

 
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