The role of the family can also have a effect in a person’s intimate relationship with a special someone. Years of rearing and care experienced in a family set-up can help mold a person’s view on how relationships work. It is the role that a family plays in how individuals feel and make their relationships with the opposite sex work and succeed.
A person’s view on relationships can be influenced by how a person is brought up by his or her family. It is through those experiences growing up that one starts formulating personal views of what a relationship should be. A person begins to see how his or her own family builds up relationships and through that, begins to somehow follow the same idea on how his or her own relationship would become.
When people grow up, they begin to develop their own thinking which is greatly influenced by parents. The parents become the child’s major role models. Whatever a child experiences with the parents in terms of how they treat relationships, this is usually ingrained as the child grows up. Not only that, how a person is brought up by the parents would also greatly influence how a person looks at potential relationships in the future.
If a person ever starts a relationship, the role of the family can be seen either from the emotional and the interaction standpoint. Emotions that a person learn to invest in relationship has got to do with how the mother and the father shows it during the growing up years. A close knit family with loving parents is a positive influence on a person that would contribute a lot to the success of potential relationships. A family always in conflict would have the same effects, but in a negative way.
It is not surprising that an individual whose parents’ own relationship with each other are strained would actually be experiencing the same things especially with his or her own future relationships. That is why it is more likely that people with divorced parents may also end up experiencing the same thing themselves. That is how big the role of parents and family have on the potential relationships of people.
The type of interactions that couples also have with their respective families may either make or break their relationship. Of course, success in every relationship do not usually depend only on two people. How they accept or look at each other’s families and friends will also be important. Not only that, a relationship between two people can become boring after a while. But when interactions with the family as well as friends are added, it provides a certain personality and dynamic to a relationship that makes it even more cherished.