Some men tend to stay away from women they are attracted to, thinking that they would be rejected right away. The truth is that they will get rejected, unless they revise their program completely.
We tend to feel insecure towards the opposite sex for several reasons, mainly because of lack of self-confidence. It’s all boils down to the way we think.
Some of the signs that we are insecure about ourselves is that we tend to feel that the other person is lying whenever we get a compliment from them, or that we think right away that approaching an attractive person would not yield a great experience.
These bad thoughts are what we should eliminate in order to bring out the best of ourselves. Here are our mantras that you can say to yourself over and over to overcome insecurities.
I won’t make any situation perfect
We tend to be afraid that everything would not turn out right if we approach someone we are attracted to, but how would we know if we don’t pursue at all? Not everything would be perfect, but at least we can try to learn from it. You need to take out the rpessure you unnecessarily built on yourself.
I am not shy
Shyness inhibits you to explore more about your potential in dating. Take the risk and get to know people. You can start by greeting your neighbors or the convenience store attendant. Slowly build your confidence.
I created my own insecurity
Remember that most of your insecurities have no meaning nor reason at all. They merely exist because you let them roam around your head.
I have the power of what I think and feel
Do not let anyone or anything control that power that only you possess. You have the power to choose whether to feel bad or feel good about yourself. If you want to live a good life, which would you choose?