There are men who are constantly looking for the woman they can spend the rest of their lives with. They try to find “The One” through their many relationships. But sometimes, men just base it on how they feel with someone they meet or are dating. This is not always an accurate way to find out if the she is for keeps. Men should know how to look at the signs. Here are some of them.
She does not expect you to be the perfect guy.
It is hard for many men to accept the fact that they try everything for a girlfriend out of love and yet still end up short. Guys know they have a keeper of a girlfriend if she is the type that does not expect her man to be perfect all the time. She understands that everyone has flaws and learns how to accept it instead of forcing guys to change.
She accepts who she is.
Men are attracted to confident women. There is something about self-insecurity that can be a turn off for many guys. A woman who learns how to accept and comfortable about who she is can be a rare gem among females who try very hard to be accepted.
She does not force you to take sides.
Some women like to have that level of control over their men. They want men to take their side on everything. This includes pitting their relationship over relationships with friends or family. It takes a rare woman who never allows her guy to take sides between loved ones. She knows that his other social relationships- with friends as well as family – are just as important as the romantic relationship they both share. She gives her guy the space to nurture all of them and not put her guy on the spot to make such difficult choices.
She respects your personal space.
Many women can be too selfish of their boyfriends. Women can become too possessive to the point of suffocation. Men can feel trapped and confined by the relationship. It takes an exceptional woman to respect a man’s need for space, whether to pursue his dreams or continue doing what makes him happy. In return, she expects the same respect for her space as well.
She trusts you.
Some women are quite selfish with their man because they just do not trust them when alone. Although these feelings can sometimes just be out of insecurities, some women are just too jealous to leave their man alone. A woman that can trust you and give you that certain level of freedom is special indeed.