You’re beginning to wonder how much time you’ve wasted drooling over the guy who’s not even looking your way. You’ve been trying to figure out how to get him to notice you. You’ve tried out scheme after scheme, but each plan of action backfired. Then you hear about this technique that’s supposed to nudge the odds in your favor. Of course you’ll try it out. Anything for the hunk you’ve been lusting after.
Well, here are the tips that are bound to make you snag the first prize without batting an eyelash:
Now you see me, now you don’t
Human behavior experts say that the more you interact with someone, the more they’ll like you. You can use this premise to catch the attention of the guy you want. Spend time with him and start being more available when he’s around.
Then, when you think he’s already into you, try to be more evasive and aloof. The rationale behind this sudden turn of action is based on the law of scarcity. We all know that people want what they can’t have. In other words, make him want you by leaving him hanging.
Let him do the pampering
Think about this: If you do nice things for someone, you’ll feel pleased with yourself and warm toward the person you’ve just spoiled. Consequently, we end up being more into that person. In contrast, having the other person spoil you will make him more affectionate and loving towards you.
Power of the gaze
Try looking at the person you like more. Chances are, you will be able to trick their brain into thinking that they are in love with you as well. This works because you’re giving someone the sensation of falling in love when he is with you.
At the end of the day, he just might realize that he is.
The bouncing ball effect
The third technique is about the amount of time you spend looking at the person you like. This time, try looking at him repeatedly. You can do this by reluctantly dragging your eyes away from him to face another person, then back at him again. This technique will surely catch his attention. That’s for sure.