Some women won’t even think of approaching a guy they like, thinking that it is awkward for a woman to pursue a man. However, little do these women know that a lot of men like to be pursued, that they want the women to take the initiative.
Women should not just sit back and wait for a man to stumble on her, and a lot of times these men do not fit their ideals. Take the active stance when it comes to choosing your love partner.
Know to maneuver yourself into his space – If you find a guy whom you feel attracted to, try to be close to him. Place yourself in a distance that is not too intrusive but enough to catch his attention. Look at him in the eyes and smile as you brush your hair along your ears. If he reacts positively, then it’s you cue to approach him.
Check out if the guy is shy – You tried the stare-and-brush trick and yet he just looked down or began to "clam up," he is probably shy. Introvert men would rather prefer the woman to initiate contact. So what are you waiting for?
Make him thrilled – Initiate conversation and ask about his interests. Relate to his hobbies with your own (if he sings and you dance, talk about it) and take attention to interests he feels most passionate about, boosting his self-confidence further. Also, if you have some interests that you think would get him interested (such as sports), tell him. Don’t forget to let him talk to make the conversation flowing.