Just as it’s best to wait to drop the L-bomb until your man does, let a guy change his Facebook status to “in a relationship” before you do.
Take Your Time
No woman in a healthy long-term relationship has ever said, “Gee, I really wish I’d slept with him sooner.”
It Shouldn’t Be All Work
If a relationship feels like too much work after the first month, it’ll be 10 times harder a year from now.
So I am going to quote three of the 10 Dating Truths You Can’t Ignore. The first one is follow his lead, remember ladies that guys like a chase. Never show that you are already his till he has made you his! Let him say the love word and update his relationship status first. Remember plain and simple, let him take the lead!
Ladies, please take your time when it comes to having sex with your man. Guys actually want to work for it. Like I said, guys like a chase whether they want to admit it or not. Having sex too soon in the relationship only jeopardizes the potential. If you don’t believe me, just go have a talk with your brother and if you don’t have a brother, then have a talk with one of your boy cousins. They will all tell you the same thing. Guys really don’t like a girl who gives it up too easily. Sure they will never turn down having sex with you but I am not sure they will take you too seriously for a deep relationship with romantic potential.
Last but not least, remember that if the relationship is all work or more work then fun, it is a big sign for “Not the One.” I once dated this guy who after one week was already making issues out of everything. I was sharp enough to know that it was not going to go anywhere, so I quickly let him know it was not going to work out and I saved myself from a relationship that was just going to be too much work to even get started. Remember ladies that when it is right, everything at least starts off smoothly!