If dating one-on-one makes you feel bored, then try raising the ante by party dating. It is a great way to meet new people, meet new singles, and find new friends. All you have to do is take your friends along—or try going on solo—and go clubbing while establishing your social network among fellow party revelers. Party dating is safe because such parties are in public places, there is always a crowd, and you are not on a risky blind date.
Here are some cool and creative suggestions on having fun with your party date.
Browse around – Singles party abound in your local area just at any given day, especially during holidays. Check out the party scheds through the Internet or through local newspapers.
Wear what’s in for clubbing – Remember that interacting with other singles in a club require first impressions, and what you wear in a dance hall is not exactly what you wear on the street. Club wear can vary from sexy to deconstructed clothing, depending on your mood and your personality. Check out clubbing magazines or watch dance music videos for some inspiration.
Try wearing a costume – Costumes are not limited to Halloween. You can put on a cool get-up in the club and be someone that you fantasize about, like a flight stewardess or an angel. Being the only one in costume, that makes you stand out among the crowd and more people would notice you, and possibly get to know you. If you’re going out with friends, try wearing identical costumes.
Dancing skills are not that important – Since most clubs and parties are crowded, you won’t get to move much. What matters is that you know how to move to the beat of the music.
Have a few drinks – Take a few shots of alcohol just to loosen you up, but still sober enough to carry a conversation with a hot prospect.
Be friends with all – Don’t mind if another girl dances with a guy you find cute, or when someone you don’t like says some sleazy one-liners. You don’t want to ruin your party mood just because of them. If you want to reject someone, be polite about it.
Don’t take recreational drugs – People may say cool things about E or other substances, but better judgment would make you avoid them.
Never go out with a stranger – Even if you get to know some hot guy, that doesn’t mean you trust him enough to go somewhere else. Nothing beats asking for his phone number and calling him several days after, then go out on a one-on-one date that’s more fun than ever.