One of the most difficult thing for all is the most proper, or at least the best way of ending a bad date. It’s a difficult feeling after having all that high hopes for a date only to get disappointed in the end.
Imagine trying to see the dream man/woman in a person, visualizing him/her as the Mr./Ms. Right but it all ends up as a misfortune.
Dates don’t always happen as planned or imagined. There might be something wrong in his/her gestures, maybe you’ll hate the way he/she dress, or the way he/she talks or you didn’t expect hos/her attitude to be so off.
So what do you do when it is time to say good night? How do you avoid the end of the date kiss? And how do you let him/her down gently without being to harsh?
If it is obvious that you have no intention of seeing that person again, don’t beat about the bush. Sometimes being nice is just not the way to go, just get straight to the point. Doing so could led to mixed feelings and unwanted advances. Just thank them for the date and explain to them that they are not the type of person you are looking for.
Unless you are serious for having that person to be your friend, you don’t have to tell him/her that you want to be his/her friend. Most importantly, if you don’t want to see the person again, then make it very clear to tell him/her how you feel.
You may prefer to do end it indirectly, probably by phone if you just don’t have the guts to say it to him/her straight to the face. If you don’t want to have any kind of relationship with the person, then you have to make it quite clear.