Many variables come into play when it comes to dates. They may either benefit or become the reasons for rejection. But what you would not want to experience during a meeting with someone you particularly like is confusion.
Some people may become confused when it comes to establishing a date. Other people may not consider calling it a date the first time because they first want to set up a period of analysis and evaluation of the other party. They first want to establish of the emotions they feel are right. But in most cases, it will only serve to complicate matters. It may send different signals that can cause confusion. In short, being more direct when it comes to asking for a first date may be a better option.
What it benefits him.
For the guy, being direct when asking for a relationship can lead to many things. First off, the guy gets to know right away if the girl is not interested. That will save a lot of time trying to decipher what the other’s intention is. It saves up time, effort and energy on the part of the guy.
By being direct, a guy will be able to know what to expect. If the girl says yes, then both know that it is a date. There is no room for any ambiguity in each other’s actions. He knows that it is a date. She knows that it is a date. That is the best part of it.
What it benefits her.
When the guy is being direct when asking for a date, the lady knows right away what is in store. She knows what the guy wants and expects. She is able to know what she is getting into whatever decision she makes. Because of the frank and directness, the lady can also respond in the same way with honesty. It also saves her a lot of complications later on if that first meeting develops into something serious. The girl will also appreciate the attention and appreciate the gesture of desire that she is getting from the guy. And most of all, she can be more relaxed knowing that everything is put out on the table to see right at the first stage.