Going out on a date can be a challenge. While some people may feel that the first date may be the most nerve wracking, that second date appears to be more challenging. First dates are all about introductions and getting to know each other. Second dates, on the other hand, tend to have some added emotional investment than the first one. A second date infers that two people have an early liking for each other, so much so that it requires a second meeting. That thought can add up to the challenge. Here are some tips for guys that may help them achieve second date success.
Be more creative on the second date.
It is obvious that you made quite an impression on the first date. That is the main reason you were able to get a second one. But this time, you need to up the ante. You do not want that good impression to change. You may need to become more creative in planning your first date.
Remember, second dates are usually about trying to discover that chemistry with each other. This time, it may be okay to involve some physical aspect into your date. But before doing that, try to establish that you are on the same level. The best way to do this is by planning an activity date that will allow you to do things together rather than just spend all the time talking. This will help you learn more about developing that early chemistry and discover more about it.
Continue to be the leader.
As a guy, you need to act as the one who plans and makes everything happen on the second date. Of course, you may consider some input from your date about some things she may like to do, but make sure that you always take the first step in making the date happen. Your date may be sizing you up on how you try to take charge. But more than that, it s important that you try to have control over the situation and in trying to make the second date succeed like the first one.
Try to add a bit of flirting into the mix.
You got to the point of the second date because your date is also interested in you. She definitely wants to take that attraction into something deeper. Although you still need to be a bit careful of not going overboard with whatever emotions you have, it is fine for flirting at this stage. It can help add some spice into the second date, which can do a lot with the physical side of things. But then again, try to make sure that you find out first if your date feels within the same level. You can always tell by her actions and how she receives your physical signals.
Do not forget to enjoy have fun.
No matter how extensive your planning or preparation for the second date may be, always remember that the ultimate goal is to enjoy and have fun with your partner. If you and your date is able to enjoy the second date, you still succeed in your goals. It also helps develop that attraction towards each other even further.