To date successfully you need to increase your confidence levels. Some things you can change quickly, others you will need to practice. Follow these tips to increase your confidence levels:
Make a list – List all the things you are not comfortable with about yourself.
Be honest – Think about which things you think people may not like about you. Ask to your best friend.
Evaluate yourself – Evaluate the way you look and the way you dress. Change the most basic aspects of your looks, lifestyle and regime you will instantly feel more confident.
Feel comfortable – Ensure you are comfortable with any changes you make. Your confidence will grow as you feel better about yourself.
Take care of yourself – Make sure you are in shape or attempting to be. If you are dieting or exercising remember to be patient as these changes, though dramatic, will take a little while.
Do what you always want to do – Start doing the things you wish you had always had the courage to do. Maybe a hobby or sport.
Stay positive – Learn to enjoy the little things in life and give yourself time for these things. Don’t wait for others to do something. Walk away from anything you don’t like and keep a positive attitude. Do not allow negative family comments to influence you in any way.
Stay your priority – Put yourself first as priority number one. By feeling good about yourself your life has already changed for the better and your confidence levels are on the up.
Select your friends – Be selective about what kind of person you really like and want to keep around you. Keep positive and honest people tan make you feel good about yourself.
Start dating – If someone has asked you out, accept. Be proactive and ask someone out yourself who you like. Remember, you have to try and don’t be worried the person say no. Many will also say yes.
Be sociable – Become sociable and look every opportunity. Make conversation with the nice people you meet along the way.
Select the right person – Remember that your confidence levels will become sky high by people saying yes to you. This will happen when you select the right kind of person for you.