Getting back out there … again

Getting back out there … again

Avoid the bar scene. Really, this is not the place to meet the love of your life. Though some claim success, most of those I’ve interviewed say it never really worked for them. If you’re just looking for a hook-up, a bar may be your best bet. But if you want a real relationship, try a different approach.

— Ask friends to introduce you to someone. This is my favorite way of meeting someone. A mutual friend knows both of you, so the due diligence is done and the first date will be much less awkward if there can be a double date that includes the mutual friend. This method of dating is not only safer, but is more fun and less scary than just picking someone up. So ask your friends. Then keep reminding them, and then go to as many parties as you can. Also, never turn down a wedding invitation — love is always present at a wedding.

— These days, you can’t avoid the Internet — and you shouldn’t. There are millions of singles on hundreds of dating sites, and many people have reconnected with old loves through Facebook. So you’ve got lots of company on the Internet, and your chances of meeting someone are pretty high.

It is always hard to want to get back out in the dating scene once you have had yet another failed relationship. Trust me, I have been there. The truth is guys sometimes a break is needed but it is dangerous to get too comfortable in it. Finding love requires risk and we must all be willing to take that leap. These three dating tips will help you get back out in the love game and hopefully find true love.

Dating Coach, Dawn Donohoo

 
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